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Would you get upset?

 
 
Reply Fri 12 Nov, 2021 10:22 pm
So…
I will keep it brief, so that I don’t influence the answers by my emotions.
Me abs the guy I’m seeing we’re in a beer garden that has an upstairs area. We are standing by the rail and we can see people downstairs. He makes a comment about how we can view all the cleavage and pulls out his phone and takes a picture, then he counts how many boobs he got.
I got upset. Did I overreact?
 
roger
 
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Reply Fri 12 Nov, 2021 10:50 pm
@Nika0904,
I'd give him a break if I thought he might be trying to be funny. If he were serious, I might reconsider the relationship.
glitterbag
 
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Reply Fri 12 Nov, 2021 11:04 pm
@roger,
I bet there were women below taking pictures of him for their 'boob' capture pictures.
roger
 
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Reply Fri 12 Nov, 2021 11:34 pm
@glitterbag,
Since I don't know about phones that take pictures, I think they should all be outlawed for everyone.

So there!
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Ragman
 
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Reply Sat 13 Nov, 2021 05:04 am
@Nika0904,
You didn’t push him over the railing? Amazing!

If he was serious, tell him he can do his Peeping Tom activity when he’s not with you. Clearly he has no respect for you or women in general.
Leadfoot
 
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Reply Sat 13 Nov, 2021 06:55 am
@Nika0904,
Abs, Cool nick-name for a guy. Body builder?

Don’t be too hard on him, he is only an evolved animal reacting to one of the awesomely beautiful female shapes which millions of years of evolution has caused him to react in non-sensical ways to the hormones that flood his brain at the mere sight of.

But it does insure the survival of the species, so it’s all for a good cause.
He would have been thinking the same thing even without the churlish behavior.
You could probably train him to restrain himself if you try hard, if that makes you feel better.
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Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Tue 16 Nov, 2021 02:05 pm
@Ragman,
Absolutely agree with you Ragman.................unless maybe, he's 15, then I might give him a pass.
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Leadfoot
 
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Reply Tue 16 Nov, 2021 02:13 pm
How old was old Harvey Weinstein anyway?

Does age really matter?
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VABGirl
 
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Reply Wed 1 Dec, 2021 05:29 pm
I would dump him
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VABGirl
 
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Reply Wed 1 Dec, 2021 05:32 pm
@Ragman,
A very hard push, lol
BillRM
 
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Reply Wed 1 Dec, 2021 11:08 pm
@VABGirl,
What the hell is wrong with you guys??????

The man crime was that he misjudge the degree of his relationship with the female poster as somehow I am sure women among themselves are just as crude concerning males and male bodies parts as he was concerning women breasts.

Only if the relationship was fairly new can I see anything for her to be overly annoyed at instead of amused over.
Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Thu 2 Dec, 2021 05:14 am
In my entire life, even before feminism was a buzzword, I would NEVER consider a relationship with a man who objectifies women.
glitterbag
 
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Reply Thu 2 Dec, 2021 02:26 pm
I would be very disappointed spending time with a man who likes to photograph women secretly. I think we have all seen people overly gawking, touching, or other ways annoying women like they are nothing more than decorations for amusements.

I think most women here can tell you mind-chilling stories about how they were harassed or annoyed by unpleasant attention from strangers.

I didn't see the OP as a woman, I just assumed it was another male commenting on the behaviour of a companion. That was my mistake, but it still creeps me out.
Mame
 
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Reply Thu 2 Dec, 2021 02:31 pm
@glitterbag,
Yeah, there's nothing wrong with looking, but it should be discreetly done, both for his girlfriend and the other woman. And taking pics? Talking about their breasts? That's the kind of thing Trump does. Real stupid and insulting.
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BillRM
 
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Reply Thu 2 Dec, 2021 04:22 pm
@Phoenix32890,
Phoenix32890 wrote:

In my entire life, even before feminism was a buzzword, I would NEVER consider a relationship with a man who objectifies women.


LOL and women do not do that!!!!!!!!!!!!

My hypocrite meter had gone off it scale to the point it had pin it needle around the stop sitting.
izzythepush
 
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Reply Fri 3 Dec, 2021 08:43 am
@BillRM,
That's the sort of response I would expect from someone who considers watching child pornography a victimless crime.
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Fri 3 Dec, 2021 10:14 am
@BillRM,
I think you missed the point. Objectifying people is wrong, even if someone else does it. A lot of people murder for all sorts of reasons, is it ok for you to murder?
Medusax
 
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Reply Sun 5 Dec, 2021 09:10 pm
@Nika0904,
I would leave without saying a word and never see him again.
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Medusax
 
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Reply Sun 5 Dec, 2021 09:17 pm
@BillRM,
Yes...you said it.... "women AMONG THEMSELVES." Never have I been with a man and said "Oh, WOW!~ Look at the bulge in HIS pants! Damn! Let me get a PICTURE of THAT!" Of course...MOST of my relationships were pre-cell phone, but blatantly looking and making comments is the same thing. As a veteran of this sort of crap, it is rude and disrespectful and it tells the person you are with that they are worthless and not enough for you. More and more I am thankful to be old and done . My late husband was the only man who EVER respected me. I'm sorry but as a whole, you guys suck. Period.
Mame
 
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Reply Sun 5 Dec, 2021 09:24 pm
@BillRM,
BillRM wrote:

I am sure women among themselves are just as crude concerning males and male bodies parts as he was concerning women breasts.

Only if the relationship was fairly new can I see anything for her to be overly annoyed at instead of amused over.


1. Uh, no. We women do not talk about men that way. Maybe some women do, but none of the ones I know do, unless he's got a man-bun and is wearing earrings and high heels and then it's not complimentary. Take pics maybe for the Walmart files... ok.

2. Just try and have your package stared at, your bum pinched a few times, comments made about the size of your whatever, and some derogatory remarks made for 20+ years and we'll see have you feel.
 

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