Should I go? Husband caught with porn again, again, and again over the course of 8years

Do you all remember the hype around the Madonna issue... I think it was Hustler?

I got my hands on a copy (I think I was just old enough to buy one myself, although where I lived you had to know which convenience stores had them under the counter). Never have I been more disappointed.

SEX SEX SEX! What a boring campaign.
It's DRUMMED into folk constantly - Love=Sex, Commitment=sex, healthy relationship=sex.....

It's ALL Bollux!

Your Hubby doesn't discreetly jack-off because you mean Nada, unto him - He does it to satisfy his (Indoctrinated) desire template/s.

'Variety is the spice of life' (Cliche).
He can't help his conditioning, lest groweth he a brain.
And you, like any partner (Who is conditioned thusly) become monotonous after the 'Honeymoon period'.

Relationships based on sexual intimacy are doomed from the off.

It's a 5second High - Not a lifetime commitment.
Have a Lovely Day

Porn...no big deal. No different than having a collection of playboys in the old days. Jerking off in the shower? No big deal. However, women who are close and easily accessible sending naked pics? It will eventually happen. Lived it.

For me, it usually lasts at least a few minutes. No wonder you are too big on sex, Mark.