WHAT DO FEMALES GET OUT OF TEASING AND NOT GETTING PLEASED

JLLLLLL wrote:

WHY DO FEMALES TEASE AND NOT PLEASE. I THINK BECAUSE THEY HAVE PROBLEMS WITH THEIR EGOS AND ARE FRIDGET AND CANT BE SEXUALLY FULLFILLED BECAUSE OF MENTAL PROBLEMS THAT PROBLEY ARENT PROBLEMS AT ALL JUST THEIR SILLY WANTS AND DESIRES THEY USUALLY HAVENT REALLY EXPEREINCED A REAL ORGAZISUME JUST LIED ABOUT IT TO THEM SELVES AND TO THEIR FREINDS OR THE MONEY THING MATERIALS ARE TOO IMPORTANT TO THEM AND LOVE AND GOOD SEX IS NOT FOR THEM BECAUSE THEYVE NEVER HAD IT. SO CAN I GET SOME FEED BACK HERE.

In my opinion, the vast majority of "cock teasing" is unintentional, and a result of a miscommunication in signals.

Guys and gals misread each other a lot. I have heard friends say that some girl is into them time and time again based on signals that I think they misread.

When their expectations are not met, sometimes they attribute malice where there is none.

This may be the case with you as well, the "teasing" you experience may be the result of a girl putting out confusing signals unintentionally or even the result of your own inability to understand signals. It could even be a case in which a girl tentatively expressed interest only for you to ruin it in some way.

It's really easy to take such a cavalier attitude to your own sexual frustrations and project onto others, but you'd probably stand to benefit more from attempting to understand issues instead of merely deriding others when you don't get your way.

Lastly, please pay some attention to the criticism of your social skills here. In my opinion, there is ample reason for it and you could stand to benefit. A lot of what you are saying positively reeks of egotistical male chauvinist and this is off putting to most people and especially to women.

JLLLLLL wrote:

ALL Iam reading is that females have a serious mental problem that is that they dont know what they are doing in the dateing ritual. hollar back.

You might want to read more academically sound books then. Sexual discrepancies between men and women hardly amount to women having "a serious mental problem".

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and craven iam courious what tye of job do you do

I currently work in marketing.

Besides why dont women make the first move instead of waiting for the man to approach them tell me that will ya.

Some of us do make the first move, JL.

I sometimes wonder if it's a generational thing. My generation was just behind the early 'women's lib' movement, and we did, and do, ask men out. When I read some of the posters here at A2K, it does seem that some younger women are not comfortable asking men out. I don't know why there has been that regression (I could guess, but I don't know).

JLLLLLL wrote:

Besides why dont women make the first move instead of waiting for the man to approach them tell me that will ya.

I think for the most part - women are more cautious. So they have a tendency to observe for awhile, instead of jumping right in there.

Men on the other hand are looking for the next romp in the hay. So their little member gets very impatient if it has to wait too long. :wink: Thereby men do make the first move alot of times..........while the woman is still sizing him up.

Speaking for myself..... I am not afraid to let a guy know I'm interested. Even if he has made no move. BUT .... I'm still gonna watch him for awhile first. Just to make sure he's not a fruit loop. :wink:

Craven de Kere wrote:

JLLLLLL wrote:

WHY DO FEMALES TEASE AND NOT PLEASE. I THINK BECAUSE THEY HAVE PROBLEMS WITH THEIR EGOS AND ARE FRIDGET AND CANT BE SEXUALLY FULLFILLED BECAUSE OF MENTAL PROBLEMS THAT PROBLEY ARENT PROBLEMS AT ALL JUST THEIR SILLY WANTS AND DESIRES THEY USUALLY HAVENT REALLY EXPEREINCED A REAL ORGAZISUME JUST LIED ABOUT IT TO THEM SELVES AND TO THEIR FREINDS OR THE MONEY THING MATERIALS ARE TOO IMPORTANT TO THEM AND LOVE AND GOOD SEX IS NOT FOR THEM BECAUSE THEYVE NEVER HAD IT. SO CAN I GET SOME FEED BACK HERE.

In my opinion, the vast majority of "cock teasing" is unintentional, and a result of a miscommunication in signals.

Guys and gals misread each other a lot. I have heard friends say that some girl is into them time and time again based on signals that I think they misread.

When their expectations are not met, sometimes they attribute malice where there is none.

This may be the case with you as well, the "teasing" you experience may be the result of a girl putting out confusing signals unintentionally or even the result of your own inability to understand signals. It could even be a case in which a girl tentatively expressed interest only for you to ruin it in some way.

It's really easy to take such a cavalier attitude to your own sexual frustrations and project onto others, but you'd probably stand to benefit more from attempting to understand issues instead of merely deriding others when you don't get your way.

Lastly, please pay some attention to the criticism of your social skills here. In my opinion, there is ample reason for it and you could stand to benefit. A lot of what you are saying positively reeks of egotistical male chauvinist and this is off putting to most people and especially to women.

so my freind are u dateing any body thats from jerry springer movie

me i can read the signals very well some i throw off others i go for if i feel like it some times i dont cause iam not getting the ones that i really want. and they usually get pissed.

JLLLLLL wrote:

me i can read the signals very well some i throw off others i go for if i feel like it some times i dont cause iam not getting the ones that i really want. and they usually get pissed.

Wow.......you're quite the stud, then aren't ya?

Well most men cant say and not lie that they have been with 5 ladys at the same time a couple time different ladys well hay 2 is not a number to reach iam still trying for 8 thank you.

JLLLLLL wrote:

Well most men cant say and not lie that they have been with 5 ladys at the same time a couple time different ladys well hay 2 is not a number to reach iam still trying for 8 thank you.

Is that what it's all about with you? Picking up women in bars or wherever and taking them home and screwin' their brains out? That's all you want out of a woman?

Whatever trips your trigger, I guess.

I only seek out real men. So if you ever see me out and about.....keep on walkin'. :wink:

You most certainly ARE trying....

any way i like the girls whom are a bit slutty with slutty cloths thoses are usually the teasers they show themselves and deprive males of their lustfull wants and desires most of the action takes place under the silver ball on the dance floor thats where my domain is at the clubs i usually dont dance with agirl that i cant have and they all know it that my code of ethnics.