Making the First Move? / Neverending Advice & Hints....

Right on Slappy.

"Every No I get is just one more No closer to another Yes"

someone you can stand, indeed.

and thats the thing you often don't know for sure for 6 months or more.

well sometimes you know it in 6 seconds

I met a guy in Jersey who always used the same line.

"Hi, my name's Rocco, how'd you like to get reamed half to death ?"

It actually worked once or twice.

I moved away from Jersey days later.


Rocco was assaulted by more women than he bedded, but I think he was OK with that.

Hone those instincts boy !

well here we go into the gutter. oh well.

i know a guy that on Saturday morning, will just start out at one end of this 2 mile beach. carries with him a small backpack with paper/pen/cards, etc.

every friggin single girl on the beach, he'll go up to and chat. if 4 say get lost, he just keeps going down the beach to number 5, 7, 18, 24

all day. its like his hobby, instead of golf

that guy gets WAY more women than any "club" guy i know.

some not so good ones, but some really nice great women.

just walkin down the beach. ALL DAY. thick skin. keepin on truckin

almost hilarious

Sometimes the packaging throws you off. Don't be so quick to judge.

When I first met my husband, I wouldn't have thought he was the type who would ever settle down. Was I ever wrong! Good thing he was persistent! Eventually I saw through the facade. And what I saw then was exactly what I'd been looking for.

"Find someone you can stand"...cold? No, it just sounds experienced, LTX! Finding someone whose faults you can live with...that may just be the ticket after all.

Right on Eva.

On that wise note, I better get some work done.

This thread has been great.

Thanks everyone. Please add any hints you feel like...this is the never ending story...