Frank Apisa Wrote:
Quote:MA...you tell me that I should not give my opinions about your god.
No, that is not what I said. I said if you would just state that it is your opinion, in my opinion, etc., I would not have a problem with that. Those can come into the middle of these threads and do not read them from beginning to end might possibly perceive you (as I have) to be stating in essence that they are wrong and you are right. It's not what you say that offends me, it is the way you state it.
Quote:You want all that "god is good, god loves you crap" to stay...and the stuff that I have to say...you want out."
No, this is not what I want. What I want is a civil exchange of beliefs, ideas, etc. No person can make an informed decision about anything unless they have as many differing views as possible. But, can't you see that you call my stuff crap and you call yours stuff?
Frank Apisa Wrote:
Glad to make you smile, but it was not intended as a joke.
Quote:If you read the remarks you now call "patronizing" and do not see that they were anything but patronizing...you are a jerkhoff. The remarks were sincere...they were well delivered...and ou have one hell of a lot of nerve to characterize them the way you are doing.
Well, then let me rephrase that. They appeared to me to be patronizing and the response you received from Snood led me to believe he also thought they were patronizing. This is what I am talking about Frank. It's your delivery of your opinions that lead to some of the misperceptions. If you meant it sincerely, then thank you. Our troops need and deserve every bit of thanks and respect we can give them. If I misunderstood or misperceived your intentions here, I sincerely apologize.
Frank Apisa Wrote:
Quote:But then again...you want to take a god who is jealous, vindictive, vengeful, petty, tyrannical, quick-to-anger, slow -to-forgive, murderous, and barbaric...and pretend the god is loving, kind, and compassionate.
Frank, you have consistently called me names, belittled my beliefs, my views, etc. You appear to me to be mean spirited, bitter, and vengeful. You tell me that you are kind, moral, decent, and loyal. Frank, doesn't that just mean there may be more than one set of traits you have? Don't you think that God may have (I know, that is if there is a God) different traits also? Yes, God did have many killed in His name. Yes, God is quick to anger, He tells us that Himself in the Bible. I don't agree with the slow to forgive though. Now, there is also the side of God that is loving, kind and compassionate. Just as there is a side of all of us that can demonstrate good traits on one hand and bad traits on the other. I see God as "overall" good and loving. You appear to see God as "overall" the opposite. That's fine, Frank. You can think that. You have every right and I wouldn't say you don't.
Frank, let me put it this way. What if someone called your wife a moron? An idiot? A joke? A scumbag? You love your wife, right? Would you not stand up for her. Would you not be offended by someone doing that? Your wife is important to you (I assume) and God is important to me. What is wrong with asking you to not call him idiotic or a scumbag?
Frank Apisa Wrote:
Quote:You do not know how to read with comprehension, MA.
You are making a judgement. I may not read with your level of comprehension but I read with comprehension. I just don't agree with everything you say.
Frank Apisa Wrote:
Quote:The group of you constantly rail against some of the "names" I've called you...(admitting it are we?

)...but the group has pretty much designated me (and other kindred folk) as either murderers, abetters of murder, or advocates of murder...
...and have done so quite explicitly.
I cannot speak for others Frank. I can only speak for myself. I do not believe in abortion. I equate abortion with murder. However, I do not feel that just because you feel the opposite that you are a murderer, an abetter of murder, or advocate of murder... And I fully support your right to be annoyed (or whatever) by anyone doing so. I can believe abortion is murder and not condemn someone else for them not believing it is.
Frank Apisa Wrote:
Quote:I don't sit around being a cry baby about you calling me...or the others...those kind of names."
Well, that's a good thing I suppose. But, we are not all the same Frank. I just feel that when there are two extremes, you can both come to an amicable compromise. Now, the only compromise I ask of you is to state or just put (IMO) when stating what you think or feel God is. Calling me a moron, insane, a joke, is not necessary Frank. You are an extremely intelligent man, and I have found in other threads you can be quite engaging, funny, light-hearted and kind. I just do not understand why you can't be that way with those that believe in God. I don't think it's too much to ask Frank. Is it? A little courtesy?
Frank Apisa Wrote:
Quote:hummm perhaps that is why you are so interested in ending the "fetus is a fetus" thing...so you can get away with calling it a child and accuse the rest of us of abetting or advocating murder by being pro-choice."
No, no, no. I am interested in ending it because we are at a stalemate with this. I believe on way, you believe another. Agree to disagree? I have not, and will not accuse you or anyone else of abetting or advocating murder by being pro-choice. I am not one of those Christians or anti-abortionists that believe you should use the "bombing" method to make your point. If I don't like the law then I have the right to lobby to change the law. I do not have the right to condemn nor punish those that do not agree with me. I am 100% behind putting anyone that would bomb an abortion clinic, kill a doctor who performs abortions, etc. in jail. They are turning around and doing just what they accuse of pro-abortionists of doing. You don't break the law to change or amend the law. Now, abortion is legal. I voted against it. The majority didn't. So, it's a law. God says to follow man's laws. Ok, doesn't mean I have to get an abortion, but it does mean that I can't take that right or condemn anyone else for making that choice.
Now, I hope I have made myself a bit clearer. Frank, you have many valid points in your posts. You raise some very thought provoking questions. So, can we come to an amicable compromise here?