I don't know. I think I'm going to just ignore his e-mails and the next time I see him (he works in the same building with me) I'm going to tell him that if he brings it up again, I will no longer be on speaking terms with him. I'm not good at being forceful and setting definite boundaries like that though, so I don't know how it will work out.
Slappy, what do you do when you make out with one of your gay friends? I'd appreciate some advice from someone who has gone through this many times, and can speak from real-life experience.
Years back, when I got my first further training in AIDS prevention, we were about 200 persons from all over the state.
The males were nearly all gay.
Since we met every month, mostly for a couple of days (we got a diploma afterwards, so there had to be a lot of classes), I just told them that I was an exot, namely hetero.
And this was accepted without further questions.
(Nearly, I must admit: at mid-term, we made a big party, with life band, disco and all the party jokes.
Since some knew that I'd done such before, I strip-teased. The band gave a really good professional sound to that, and the lightning was extraordinary as well: so ONE asked me afterwards, if I really happened to be a hetero even now :wink: )
Quote:Once some knew that I'd done such before, I strip-teased.
I think there are pictures in order to validate this statement Walter
Yes, I think a picture is in order ;-)
CalamityJane wrote:
I think there are pictures in order to validate this statement Walter
Not from that told event - but from an earlier one (earlier, not the first: the first time I did this, was when I finished my basis training with the navy).
No, I don't post them. Full stop.
Walter
Was that part of the commencement ceremony :wink:
Aaarrgh. How similar are attempts to persuade someone to have sex/a relationship, when they do not want to, across the sexual preferences spectrum!
I don't know how often I got the "Oh - you DO want to have sex with me - you just have hang-ups about your sexuality - let me help you!" line when I have not wanted to sleep with a guy.
The song always seems to be the same when people will not respect boundaries, eh? I guess women lay this crap on guys, too??
Anyhoo - good luck Kicky - it would be great if you CAN keep the friendship - mebbe a break WILL be necessary?
THIS THREAD IS A JOKE.
Kicky didn't make out with his gay buddy.
Remember my dickhead avatar? That's because I lost a football bet to Kicky. Well, I won the next week's bet, so I PM'd him to put up a story that he sucked off his gay buddy one night...that was too much for our sensitive little friend, so we agreed he'd post he made out with him.
Good advice everyone, though. Now he'll know how to handle it when it really happens.
Just what are you two betting about?
And just why do the results always appear to involve penii?
Hah, I called it, didn't I!
Osso--
You gloated before I could post congratulations. Still, congratulations!
ossobuco wrote:I think this is one more of kick's hypothetical scenarios.
Yes, I did, Yes, I did, yah yah!
Heh!
He still gets some props for daring to do it, even if it is the watered-down version.
Barely. Poor Kicky wouldn't do it at first, but I had to use a little negotiating action to get him to water the story down.
Weave your web, sales boy.
Kicky and Slappy, you guy's duped about 20 A2ker's with this thread.
Wait a minute, this is a joke thread?
Let's count the ways.
He has a cat.
He has dishes.
He has coral colored sheets.
He has lots of friendships with straight girls without any sexual contact.
Oh yeah..... he's hoping they pass that same sex marriage law....
Joe (I'm so confused) Nation
If you look at the posts, people actually believed him, and tried to help.
