msolga wrote:WhoodaThunk wrote:Nothing personal, but those who are aghast at the thought of a child in handcuffs have probably not seen these kids in action.....
Wrong. I've taught hundreds of 11 year old girls, plus many more older adolescents of both sexes, for many years ....
Never could I imagine any student being treated in this way. I can understand the need to bring in the police for exceptional reasons (eg assault, drug dealing, etc) but handcuff students as a form of control? I don't think so. Once things have reached that stage you may as well close down the school. It's a total breakdown of cooperation & understanding between the students & their teachers.
I'm curious though, WhoodaThunk. Is "cuffing & stuffing" permissable under the laws of your state? In my country it could get you into a lot of trouble.
Msolga: I, too, have taught hundreds of boys and girls in the 12-16 year range, and most kids are just that ... kids. But if you truly have
never seen a need for a student to be placed in handcuffs, escorted to a police vehicle, and driven to the Juvenile Justice Center, then there really
is a difference between the public education systems in America and Australia. Last year, one boy attacked the vice-principal and was physically restrained (pinned to the floor) until the authorities arrived to take him away. I remember another time when a female co-worker finished her work day wearing the imprint of a 12-year-old's shoe on the crotch of her pants where the child kicked her full-force. Yes, I suppose you could say that amounted to a "breakdown of cooperation & understanding between the students & their teachers." Said child was cuffed & stuffed. Drug possession gets one cuffed & stuffed, as do weapons of any sort. And of course any assault on another person gets the student taken away ... in handcuffs ... in a police cruiser ... to a juvenile detention facility, which is hardly Alcatraz.
BTW, I teach in a fairly typical middle-class suburban district, and this is a fairly new approach in our area. In the past, the schools never wanted to have flashing police lights on the property as it was seen as bad PR, but now, I believe it is the school's reaction to the near-epidemic abdication of parental responsibilities. If the kids (and parents) don't respect the school and its rules of behavior, then the student is removed from that part of society. Private and parochial schools simply kick them out, and this is the public system's only legal recourse to do the same. Of course the difference is that eventually the public schools must accept those kids back.
Someone mentioned earlier that we are doing these kids no favors by coddling them through their adolescent years with no real consequences for outrageous behavior. I agree. Who will be there when they turn 18 and haven't learned that consequences exist for their actions? Please spare me the talk about programs and counselors and all that. These kids have been through
all of that and it means nothing. P.O.'s and D.H. and more initials then I've ever heard in my life ... house arrest ... ways around their drug tests. It's really sad. At some point, you have to draw a line that says there really
are consequences in this world. In this case, I believe sooner is better than later.
Walter: Sorry, I don't agree. Actually, in this case I think
child abuse is what is perpetrated on the victim by the school when the only response to an assault is to hustle the
aggressor off to a warm & fuzzy 12-step program designed to soothe and assuage the mini-monster's self-image.