Quote:Cycloptichorn- Yes, these are certainly problems, but IMO you are comparing apples with oranges.
Stopping smoking, and making lifestyle changes to prevent heart disease are a personal responsibility. Terrorism is foisted upon innocent people.
If your entire family were killed by terrorists, could you really think, "Oh well, but a lot more people than my family died of heart attacks in my neighborhood? Think about that!
I think about it
every f*cking day. My uncle was killed in the WTC attacks and my cousin barely made it out alive.
When I look at it objectively, however, I've lost one relative to terrorism and
five to heart disease or cancer brought on by smoking in the last four-odd years. It's been somewhat tough around the house.
This brings me back to the original point: there's a difference between being
wary about something happening to you, and being
afraid of it. Fear is the mind-killer; it removes logic from the process of judgement and control.
I don't think a single day has gone by, or will, when I think of terrorism and my Uncle. But I'm not
afraid of it. You can say 'apples and oranges' all you want, but the holes in my family don't fill themselves, no matter what term you put on them.
Cycloptichorn
p.s. this isn't some sort of sob story by me; I made my peace with what went on a long time ago and don't really want to talk about it.