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ossobuco
 
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Reply Thu 24 Mar, 2005 11:23 am
I hope you don't bender tooo much, that could work against you.

(I know, I haven't posted here in a while, but I read along.)





I'm not against drinking, just the bender part.
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ukman
 
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Reply Thu 24 Mar, 2005 03:49 pm
i'll be fine drinking a bender now and again the norm in england Embarrassed


what a day get the divorce letter and take my boys and 2 friends to the parks play area,i didnt know but do now that the new swing is for wheelchairs only...i never saw the warning until later.Anyhows needless to say my youngest trapped his leg and has broke it two places and needs an op and her mum is blaming me because she knew it was fopr wheelchairs and she takes them on there 3 times a week and i dont.

man im a loser ,life cant get any worse.
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Thu 24 Mar, 2005 03:54 pm
ukman wrote:
i'll be fine drinking a bender now and again the norm in england Embarrassed


what a day get the divorce letter and take my boys and 2 friends to the parks play area,i didnt know but do now that the new swing is for wheelchairs only...i never saw the warning until later.Anyhows needless to say my youngest trapped his leg and has broke it two places and needs an op and her mum is blaming me because she knew it was fopr wheelchairs and she takes them on there 3 times a week and i dont.

man im a loser ,life cant get any worse.


you are not a loser. And you didn't break his leg. Accidents happen and they happen to the best of parents. Ask any parent on here and they will tell you that sometimes kids get hurt.

I am sure your child doesn't blame you.
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ukman
 
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Reply Thu 24 Mar, 2005 05:04 pm
he doesnt.....but im so down at the mo,dont want pity or anything but everything is going wrong in my life.
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Thu 24 Mar, 2005 11:44 pm
On benders, they don't work well in accumulated annotated files, however well they fly in england in general.

I am horrified re your child and the swing thing. Please breathe deep and just wait. I gather you didn't hurl him and break his leg. Don't just assume everything is your fault.
I speak as someone trained in park design.

On the other hand, if you acted nonchalantly and just whirled him, admit it. It may be that the warnings weren't strong enough. Or were you inebrieated? If so, discuss it with your lawyer...
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OCCOM BILL
 
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Reply Fri 25 Mar, 2005 12:42 am
ukman wrote:
man im a loser ,life cant get any worse.
I've avoided commenting on this thread since you revealed your mean streak. Instead of whining about being a loser; why not take a good inventory of the reasons you think you are and take the necessary steps to change? Every passing moment is another chance to turn it all around.
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ukman
 
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Reply Fri 25 Mar, 2005 02:33 am
it. It may be that the warnings weren't strong enough. Or were you inebrieated? If so, discuss it with your lawyer...[/quote]



no i wasnt drunk ...im not a big drinker ,just now and again,saturday england are on tv at soccer so im going to the pub thats all...



bill,ive no mean streak mate just a normal guy thats all ,whose heart as been bust.
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Fri 25 Mar, 2005 02:45 am
I think I've understood you're not a big drinker, just making sure that wasn't the situation.

I am terribly sorry for your child, and think you need to see someone to represent your own point of view immediately.
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BorisKitten
 
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Reply Fri 25 Mar, 2005 06:43 am
Ukman, this is one big run of BAD LUCK... it happens to us all at one time or another, and it doesn't mean you're a loser.

So sorry to hear about the kid, but he will heal, you will heal... it was an accident, and accidents happen, especially to active boys.

Maybe Bill is saying your mean streak is directed at yourself? I don't see how you are to blame for the things that have happened in your life. And your blaming yourself won't help one bit.

Stay in that house, talk to your lawyer, and do your best to just push your way through this hard time. Things will change; things will get better. I'm sending smiling thoughts your way.
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ukman
 
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Reply Mon 28 Mar, 2005 04:25 pm
boris its just feels like my entire life is a waste of time with everything going wrong...i have/had everything i ever wanted ...2 beautiful kids a sexy wife,a nice house and garden etc all lost ...kids not...but you get my drift.

today i took my boys to the robots movie and they loved it...the little fella lording the wheelchair attention too,but it was so hard,it was full of happy families and me.I got the boys home and to bed and then i hurt like no tommorow.


i dont want to come across as a whuss on here because im not im usually the life and soul of life but im just heartbroken and you guys help...dont know why but you do Razz
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ukman
 
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Reply Wed 30 Mar, 2005 04:02 pm
jesus.................just had phone call my 34 year old mate has just died....christ almighty what the f is wrong with march???? Mad
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Wed 30 Mar, 2005 04:08 pm
ukman wrote:

today i took my boys to the robots movie and they loved it...the little fella lording the wheelchair attention too,but it was so hard,it was full of happy families and me.I got the boys home and to bed and then i hurt like no tommorow.


that sounded like a happy family moment to me. happy families don't have to look or be a certain way. normal just does not exist.
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Montana
 
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Reply Wed 30 Mar, 2005 04:19 pm
I'm so sorry to hear about your friend, ukman. I lost my best friend a few years ago and I miss her so very much.

I know things suck for you right now, but your life will fall into place in time. I've been to hell and back many many times and I made it out ok, so just hang in there.
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ukman
 
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Reply Wed 30 Mar, 2005 04:21 pm
it wa shappy moment so to speak but the "happy families"(ie.mom dad and kids hurt )felt so strange.....................but tomm im taking my eldest to an indoor waterpark ..youngest cant go .So im hoping its easier
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ukman
 
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Reply Mon 4 Apr, 2005 09:53 am
well the waterpark trip was awsome we had a good time....today ive been to my solisiters and ......UKMAN IS AND FIGHTING BACK...BABY!!!!


Well hope so Confused
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ukman
 
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Reply Fri 6 May, 2005 03:02 pm
update...

im hanging in just,still in the house but its hard,im low as hell but up fot the boys.Got my 1st divorce papers thru today from the court.Sad
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Bekaboo
 
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Reply Fri 6 May, 2005 04:35 pm
*hugs and prayers*
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