dlowan wrote:"Disease, divorce, mental retardation, and homosexualiy -- yeah, nothing wrong with it. Sigh. "
I am at the point of blaming the schools, or something.
For people to CONTINUE to pair homosexuality with such things, while brightly denying that they see "anything wrong with it" , defies logic to a point that is leaving me gasping in stunned amazement.
Thing is - I have no problem with the - (what appears to be unconscious) - negative attitude expressed by some on this thread.
They all seem to have perfectly decent politics and such on homosexuality - we all have prejudices - I would never ask that we cease to have them (it is great if we can!) - only that we manage them and do not act on the basis of them. But - having consistently uttered these words - to deny that some of you have an underlying negative view of homosexuality that leaks out in this discussion - well....
This is one post I reference. I just want to say that you can decide to postpone explaining to young children issues like homosexuality without personally having negative feelings about it.
Blanket negative feelings about homosexuality, to me, is homophobia to a degree.
Freeduck--
If someone had out and out accused me personally of homophobia, the conversation about it would likely be very specific. There wasn't a personal insult involved, and my effort to get to the bottom of this isn't a hunt for someone to accuse--but a sincere attempt to explain how some parents honestly see things differently than the prevailing posters here. A couple of issues have risen up that have interested me--regarding the sincere thinking differences--or honest approaches to life that differ among people. The Red/Blue state thing, ya know.
I have seen a few posts with content much like dlowan's above--where the rationale is: If they don't think there's anything wrong with homosexuality, they won't have any problem explaining it to their children. It implies homophobia. I just wish those with differing opinions about this could know that is not always true.
It seems you and others may think I'm trying to pin an insult on someone. The victimization **** is so off the mark.
I don't think a program geared for such young children should feature gay people who are identified as gay. I do understand the other opinion. I guess that's where I stepped into this. I guess I've explained enough. I just can't stand being lumped incorrectly, even by implication, without trying to resolve it.