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The continued reference to Mary Cheney by the Dems

 
 
dlowan
 
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Reply Fri 4 Feb, 2005 04:55 pm
Ok - fair enough.

It is an issue that has long concerned me re the home schooling folk, as well as the parent's rights stuff - re where parent's rights to do whatever end - and other issues begin to be more important.

I am happy to open one later.

Should be a doozy!
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OCCOM BILL
 
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Reply Fri 4 Feb, 2005 05:01 pm
Deb, you're straight crazy on this subject, like most PC subjects, and I think I may have pinpointed the reason. Don't the vast majority of all Aussies live in cities? That's a little different upbringing than us country folk. Kindergarden through 6th grade I don't think there were ever more than 12 kids in my class... and none (to my knowledge were gay). If memory serves; the nearest gay kid was 3 years older than I was and I never heard of him until 4th grade... and it seems like I was in 6th before dude figured out he was gay. Which means there was absolutely no reason for me to know about homosexuality before that, right? Your heterosexuality comparison is silly, because the status quo doesn't generate questions like exceptions do. Had I seen such a program on PBS (and my parents were sponsors of the channel)(Even got the coveted "friends of channel 10" keychain) that would have provoked questions from me that otherwise wouldn't have come up until much later. Why you feel like you have to act all aghast at the idea that some parents might like to defer such questions as long as possible is beyond me. I've discussed attitudes like yours with two gay friends (one in the closet and one out) and both find the hyper PC lot almost as ridiculous as the bigots themselves. Not every bit of ignorance is hateful and it isn't your job any more than it is the theist's to cure it. By all means, keep trying… and in certain ways I'll continue to admire you for it, but do spare me the groundless indignation.
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dlowan
 
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Reply Fri 4 Feb, 2005 05:20 pm
Bill - you just label anything you do not like as PC. It is extremely boring - and you seem to think it will make reason and logic go away. It won't. I won't bother discussing your labels with you.

I never said every bit of ignorance is hateful - in fact, I specifically said that it is not. It helps if you read posts sometimes.


How about trying to defend your arguments?

I will be interested in discussion with you if you do that.

It is nice that you lived in a wee community. Most don't.

You may not have met gay people - or think you didn't. Chances are you did - but they were hiding because of bigotry.

I am happy that you know gay people who think like you do. I know many who do not. See - we both have anecdotes. I am not arguing from anecdotes.
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OCCOM BILL
 
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Reply Fri 4 Feb, 2005 06:35 pm
I label things as I see fit, Deb. My points are clear enough. You just choose to ignore them in favor of demonstrating your holier-than-thou-BS. You go ahead and keep looking down your nose at everyone who doesn't share your hypersensitivities. I don't care.
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dlowan
 
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Reply Fri 4 Feb, 2005 06:39 pm
Rolling Eyes

Well made and finely reasoned argument there again Bill.
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OCCOM BILL
 
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Reply Fri 4 Feb, 2005 06:46 pm
Rolling Eyes Look at you own, Deb. Other than Ad Hominem, there was nothing to respond to.
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dlowan
 
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Reply Fri 4 Feb, 2005 07:04 pm
JustWonders wrote:
Soz - I read a couple of days ago that quite a few PBS stations plan to go ahead and air the episode.

I so wish this hadn't morphed into a "bigot" thread, though. Do we know for sure that was Ms. Spellings motive? That she's homophobic?


That is VERY interesting, JW. Do you know where? Has there been much debate - outside of here - about it all?

I think it didn't "morph" into a bigot thread - it was always about whether something is bigotry, or not - as well as a raft of other stuff. The thing that has people kinda stuck is that some folk are wanting to be against the airing of the episode, but claiming to have no negative feelings about homosexuality.

I wonder if it might help them to see our point of view if I made an analogy - like - say - I don't want my child to see the Republican Convention on the news. It isn't that I don't like Republicans - it is just that, like death, disease, mental retardation, sex with hamsters, I do not want them to have to know about Republicans too soon. Let them be innocent for a decent amount of time. Like - let them be CHILDREN! I have no problem with Democratic Conventions - the are a background thing - they do not make them think about politics too soon.

Look at the language - would you really believe, if I said these things, that I was not prejudiced against republicans on some level? (And I am, of course! Lol!) And - if I were - so what - as long as am not seeking to outlaw them, or deprive them of rights etc.

How would my arguments make any sense (and they don't - they are nonsensical) without my having a negative view - somewhere - or Republicans.
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Lash
 
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Reply Fri 4 Feb, 2005 07:08 pm
If the word Republican only denoted a method of sex, ...

You have no intention of seeing it someone else's way.
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dlowan
 
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Reply Fri 4 Feb, 2005 07:12 pm
Oh, I see it all right - I just think it quite illogical.

Edit: Oh - BTW - at no time have I - or I think anyone else on this thread - called you or Bill, or Fox or JW bigots.

Bill - and JW, I think - have just made the assumption that we are, because we are disagreeing with the logic of your positions - and have pointed out that your positions, and a good deal of the linguistic associations made here with homosexuality made by some of you, suggest that there is a real discomfort with it felt by a number of you. That this is an accusation of bigotry is a totally unwarranted assumption.

I will say once more - and not bother again - that I do not see this as meaning bigotry at all. As I see bigots, they are people who unthinkingly go along with very prejudiced and damaging beliefs, unfounded on reality.

I do not see any of you as being like this - though I think the damned woman who got the program blocked probably was. In fact I have often been impressed by the reasonable positions you folk have taken on this issue - you especially Lash - mebbe because I am more aware of yours, and I think they are more well thought out and consistent - which often seems to be inconsistent with the position taken by many christians, so I notice them.

In fact, I see a reasoned position being taken on something, where there HAS been prejudice - or at least a background of it in one's milieu - more impressive than one taken in the face of no training in prejudice. You have said that folk in your milieu Lash, think you very liberal - so I am assuming that you MAY have reached your current position on gayness after ditching inculcated prejudices - I do not KNOW this, of course.

I, on the other hand, because I was one of the lucky kids who got no sexual education, until I was old enough to go to the library with my friends - at age 12 - and borrow it!!!! (they helped me work it all out) - actually received no prejudicial training about homosexuality - cos I received no training about ANY sort of sex! (Except, of course, by elimination, that it was dirty - which I still think - nah - just kiddin'.)

By the time I found out about it in any real way, (I think I was so taken up with the mechanics of heterosexual sex that I did not really see the mention of it in the sex education stuff we read) it was part of my life - I had friends who accepted it without a blink - and, quickly, lots of gay friends.

I never got the chance to really pick up any real dramas about gayness....except for the homophobia we all breathe, guess...
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Ethel2
 
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Reply Fri 4 Feb, 2005 09:59 pm
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If the word Republican only denoted a method of sex, ...


Really, Lash. You are not this dense. Others on this thread, I know they probably can't do any better.......but surely you can step back for a second and see that a couple of women doing the maple syrup thing is not about sex. Homosexual may have the word sex in it. But so does heterosexual.

Please. It's about the moralists trying to have it their way. And I hope they keep pushing because Bush's ratings are already low and I'd love to see them go even lower. I can't wait to see that smug grin wiped off his silly face.
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georgeob1
 
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Reply Fri 4 Feb, 2005 10:34 pm
Lola wrote:

... And I hope they keep pushing because Bush's ratings are already low and I'd love to see them go even lower. I can't wait to see that smug grin wiped off his silly face.


Well he can't run for any more elections. Four more years & then it's off to Clintonville for him. Do you really think that Nancy Pelosi is a more attractive alternative? Interesting to observe the morphing of Hillary to a conservative-leaning centrist - doesn't appear that she calculates Bush & the Conservatives are losing their general appeal. Poor old Kerry is looking even worse after his defeat than did old Al whatshisname. I read yesterday that even Theresa has dropped the Kerry bit - back to Heinz for her.

I am intrigued by the maple syrup thing - kind of runny. Is it better than raspberrys and whipped cream?
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OCCOM BILL
 
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Reply Fri 4 Feb, 2005 10:35 pm
Not buying Deb. I answered your post before you even got here, here. Yet you still found it necessary to pretend you didn't get it by re-quoting Dys's intentional misinterpretation so you could feign your hysterical indignation. I read you loud and clear and I'm not buying. Rolling Eyes
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dlowan
 
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Reply Fri 4 Feb, 2005 11:07 pm
Lol - whatever Bill.

I wasn't selling. And I Think Dys' post a good interpretation and you wilfully blind to that.

I think the logical melt-down is clearly on the other foot - but whatever. Caling you on your decision that everyone else but you has an agenda is hysterical? Hmmm - I see.

Continue your PC anti-PC rants and do not look at the reasoning. 'Tis no skin off my nose. Take the agendum from YOUR eye - you are so good at noticing it when you believe it is in others'....
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dlowan
 
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Reply Fri 4 Feb, 2005 11:27 pm
georgeob1 wrote:
Lola wrote:

... And I hope they keep pushing because Bush's ratings are already low and I'd love to see them go even lower. I can't wait to see that smug grin wiped off his silly face.


Well he can't run for any more elections. Four more years & then it's off to Clintonville for him. Do you really think that Nancy Pelosi is a more attractive alternative? Interesting to observe the morphing of Hillary to a conservative-leaning centrist - doesn't appear that she calculates Bush & the Conservatives are losing their general appeal. Poor old Kerry is looking even worse after his defeat than did old Al whatshisname. I read yesterday that even Theresa has dropped the Kerry bit - back to Heinz for her.

I am intrigued by the maple syrup thing - kind of runny. Is it better than rasberrys and whipped cream?


In my view, any kind of syrup is too sweet. Raspberries and whipped cream are always better. Maple sugaring is a perversion indeed.

And - how in hell did Bush get in here?
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InfraBlue
 
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Reply Sat 5 Feb, 2005 04:10 am
Hey! Alphas don't have to take nothin' from their eyes!
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blatham
 
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Reply Sat 5 Feb, 2005 05:22 am
OCCOM BILL wrote:
Blatham, you and Soz both now have made examples where the theist is forcing opinions onto others. This isn't so.
bill
I used another instance of a scripture-based injunction to make the analogy closer to the original situation, not as a means to debase scripture-based values. Some will hold that such a religion/tradition value has special status. I don't think that is defensible, but was seeking to avoid that further argument. OK?

One such person complained that she felt like values that conflicted with her own were being pushed on her child via a public TV station. She probably felt this way because values that conflicted with her own were being pushed on her child via a public TV station.
Look at your verb there...'pushed'. The show merely filmed a family with two moms. There are many such families in American life, as you know. Does the mere portrayal of such a (real) family constitute 'pushing'? Or would a better word be 'acknowledging'? Is there some problem with 'acknowledging' such a family? I'll get back to that question in a second, because it seems key. The parallel would be to have that station suggest that homosexuality was wrong (in which case you guys would be losing your minds at the injustice.) That's not a parallel because it makes a value statement, which merely filming or including a reality does not.

Sozobe's insistence on lopping homosexuality with "blacks" is testament to how circular her argument is. The jury is in on racism. Obviously, it is still deliberating on homosexuality or this wouldn't be a topic at all. This enlightened insistence that the two are one in the same (bigotry), however compelling it may be, is still trampling on the LEGAL beliefs of bible thumpers.
You mistake analogy for circularity. Soz's analogy is appropriate. Much the same reaction did occur in a very recent period with portrayals of interracial marriage. In either case, some individuals believed such a family arrangement was wrong/immoral/unnatural/unAmerican. The defense you are making here ("the jury is still out") was made back then. So it is bigotry in both cases. That seems quite clear. We were "deliberating" back then too. Would you argue that those folks who felt that discrimination against interracial couples was bigoted AND ALSO a violation of the fundamental principles of equality of the Bill of Rights and constitution should have NOT pressed their case for equality? Do you argue they ought NOT to have said 'this is an instance of bigotry'?
Save your "bible's wrong" examples for someone who believes in God and the bible. I have no use for a bible myself and consider much of it to be imaginative fiction and foolish superstition. That gives me NO RIGHT whatsoever to deny others their right to believe what they will and raise their children accordingly.
As Soz replied, this isn't a matter of her or I policing BELIEF. It is a matter of extending the equality principle to a class of people - like interracial couples, or blacks, or women before sufferage - which the culture or portions of the culture have previously deemed unworthy of equality status.
Now, without burden shifting, tell me why the woman who complained to the station didn't have every right to do so?
Again, as Soz said, the right to complain isn't infringed, nor is there any intent by her or I to infringe that right. OK? However, it doesn't follow from this 'right to complain' that the complaint must then result in the complainer getting what she desires. Yes?

But now I'll go back to what seems the key issue...is there some problem with 'acknowledging' in a show for pre-schoolers that gay parents are part of our culture? Apparently, from Spelling's comments and actions, there is. Clearly, this administration, regardless of what is in any particular administration member's noggin, is throwing its support to that segment of the culture which holds homosexuality to be, in some manner unacceptable, certainly so as regards gay marriage/parenting. Agreed?

Lash and Fox have argued that the fundamental problem here is introduction of sexuality at a young age. But their arguments for this view aren't coherent as pages and pages previous have demonstrated. Many other situations portrayed are as likely, or more likely, to evoke the same curiosity in young children (if they are even capable of making such a cognitive leap at 3 or 5). But we have to note that this argument IS NOT the one Spellings made. She said that the portrayal of the 'lifestyle' was inappropriate causing people to be offended.

What she means (I'll assume she is sincere, as opposed to merely placating a voter base, who DO mean the following) is precisely what people meant earlier in protesting portrayals of interracial marriage...we don't want to encourage it or have any more of it in the community...we don't want kids thinking it is normal or ok. We disapprove of it and we'd prefer that our kids disapprove of it as well.

Of course, they have the right to hold that view. And they have the right to act politically so as to forward the view. But let's not disguise or minimize that it all matches the definition of 'bigotry' quite exactly. And let's understand there is another problem too.

About a year ago, I had as my signature, a simple little quote from constitutional scholar Ronald Dworkin that said (slight paraphrase possible here)... "to allow something is not the same as promoting it." That's an important difference, in the context of your constitution and bill of rights. To allow - legally, under your constitution - that members of the Church of Martian Satanists may meet and worship as they see fit, is not to encourage growth in that church. It is to grant it the protections afforded all, such that equality is guaranteed. To pass laws against, or to legally differentiate this group is to act contrary to constitutional principle.

If you wish to continue to argue that I and others here are 'enforcing' our values upon others, then you must hold that the same sort of 'enforcement' applies wherever the constitutional guarantees of equality and liberty trump local custom and values which are not aligned with those constitutional guarantees...ie blacks getting the vote, etc.

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blatham
 
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Reply Sat 5 Feb, 2005 05:35 am
sozobe wrote:
Oh and one last thing! :-) I really am not in the least concerned with offending people if I think the cause is just. If a bible-thumper back then had tried to get an iterracial family off the air, I'd happily offend them... because I'd think they were wrong. Same here.

If everyone took care not to offend people with prejudices, we wouldn't ever get anywhere.


I consider this in the realm of civic duty.
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blatham
 
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Reply Sat 5 Feb, 2005 05:48 am
Clarification time..."bigot" from wikipedia...
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A bigot is a prejudiced person who is intolerant of any opinions differing from his own.

Bigot is often used as pejorative term against a person who is obstinately devoted to their prejudices even when these prejudices are challenged, often engaging these prejudices in a rude and intolerant manner. Forms of bigotry may have a related ideology, like racism, religion, and nationalism.

Bigotry is not "intolerance," but "unreasonable intolerance". Jews are understandably intolerant of Nazi Anti-Semitism; that doesn't necessarily make them anti-Nazi bigots.

A bigot will continue to hold these opinions even when confronted with evidence that challenges such stereotypes. To protect his views, he may either dismiss the challenges he encounters as an aberration to the norm and ignore the fact that they threaten to undercut his prejudices. On a more extreme level, he may deny the evidence altogether. Both reactions can be classified as forms of cognitive dissonance.
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sozobe
 
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Reply Sat 5 Feb, 2005 09:10 am
Goodness gracious. So much to address. Interesting last few posts from Blatham.

OK, I'll start here:

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Racism seems to have been rather thoroughly eradicated from the church. Homosexuality remains in limbo. Until such time as the churches adapt to homosexuality as they have racism, I'll continue to consider it out of line, for you to label all those who oppose homosexuality, bigots.


First, I wasn't actually calling everyone bigots. As "preschoolers" and "bible-thumpers" have been introduced into the conversation ("Postcards" is not, in fact, for preschoolers, though I let mine watch it), "bigots" was as well. I have throughout taken phrasing and words used by the people I am responding to in order to make my response more exact/ pertinent.

Second, though I wasn't, Blatham's definition is very interesting. I am still hesitant to call anyone here a bigot though, for the same reason that dlowan objected to Foxfyre's use of "deviant" -- there is a pure textbook definition and there is the pejorative implication.

What I will say without qualification is that I am perfectly happy to continue to call actual bigots on their bigotry. An example of that -- and how I have been using bigot throughout -- is someone who thinks that blackness and homosexuality are bad. I don't think either state is inherently bad. Simple.

What on earth does whether something has been eradicated from the church have to do with anything? Why are you (of all people!) looking to the church for guidance on whether a practice is acceptable or not?

Why is it OK to oppose homosexuality?

Bill wrote:
I admire the certainty of your conviction but that is no measure of accuracy. Your desire to enlighten the ignorant masses is no different the Christians, the Muslims or anyone else's. To maintain a happy medium, none of your messages should be subliminally sent to preschoolers.


Which messages? Love thy neighbor? Don't steal? Share? Listen?

In another fine choice of words, you have made educational TV about "subliminal messages." Educational TV is about educational TV!! Is it subliminal to have a handicapped cast member on Barney to encourage acceptance of those with disabilities? I guess you could say so. Is it nefarious? Hardly!

So, yes, educational TV is teaching, along with the importance of sharing and messages of acceptance of disabled people, an acceptance of families with two moms. This isn't some sneaky thing. It's a stated purpose of the show, exposing kids to various lifestyles and cultures. It's EDUCATIONAL.

There is NO way to strip TV of any messages at all, subliminal or not, the only thing to do is decide whether the message is ACCEPTABLE. And that's what we're discussing here. Is the message that some kids have two moms and that's OK acceptable or not?

I say yes. You seem to say no. Why?

And if you're not saying no, what on earth are you on about?

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Now, I realize you're certain your opinion is right, but which motivated theist isn't? Convincing me the church suffers from some mindless bigotry, hell, you had me at hello… but that doesn't change the fact they're well within their rights to disagree.


That's nice, but is actually not at all what I've been trying to convince you of. ("The church suffers from some mindless bigotry"? huh?)

Again, they can disagree. Sure, cool. Disagree away. And?

Yes, I'm convinced that my opinion is right. <shrugs> That's again kind of axiomatic.

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Thus far, it appears to be a majority of Americans who disagree with your take, and right or wrong in your opinion or mine, that is the bottom line.


What does THAT mean? You've seen some polls about "Postcards"? Care to share? More people are against gay marriage than not? That's pretty narrow compared to the scope of what we've been talking about. If more people approve of a prejudice than disapprove, we should just leave well enough alone? Tell that to Martin Luther King.
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sozobe
 
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Reply Sat 5 Feb, 2005 09:27 am
I keep talking about the raison d'etre of the show and how an episode with two moms totally fits, here's their actual "program summary"

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Postcards from Buster is a new PBS children's series from WGBH, Cookie Jar Entertainment and Marc Brown Studios. It is an innovative blend of animation and live action starring Arthur's best friend, Buster. Buster's dad, a pilot, is flying Los Viajeros, a rock group, on a North American tour and he's invited Buster to come along. Buster's mom has given him a video camera so he can record his new friendships and discoveries and send "video postcards" back to his pals in Elwood City.


Designed to delight and intrigue young audiences, Postcards from Buster has two key educational goals: to build awareness and appreciation of the many cultures in America and to support the language learning of children in the process of acquiring English.


In each episode, Buster travels to a new location and meets new kids and families. The kids invite Buster (and us, the viewers) into their lives, sharing their enthusiasms, experiences, and family cultures. These children reflect the many different voices and faces of young Americans today. Many of them are bilingual and/or bicultural.


Buster is a curious and open learner, always ready for fun and adventure. As he meets new people and explores new places, he models the language young English learners need in order to find their way around, make new friends, learn more about other people's lives, interests, and cultures, and share information about themselves.



Each episode features key vocabulary and sentence structures in a natural, authentic way. Key language is introduced in the opening song and then woven throughout the animation and live action segments.


http://pbskids.org/buster/parentsteachers/summary.html
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