Oh my god.
I am going to start with an incredibly UNPOPULAR statement and in all fairness take every bit of bashig that will come to me for this.
Please do understand I am not attacking a single 'person' I am attacking a religion.
To see a woman say she HAS to SUBMIT to her husband when ever he NEEDS to... is the most disgusting thing I think I have ever heard in my life. AND to think that it is because CHRISTIANITY says it is ok just sickens me. Woman have been equal to men for THOUSANDS of years, until this horrid religion came along. Now, not only are we seen as the weaker sex, we are to allow a psudo rape to happen because a religion says so? Good grief. We as women will be so much better off when this religion fades into the background. We wont have to fight or succumb in any way just because of our sex. The day that happens I will be a happy woman.
That is all I am going to say on that.
My opinions are mine and I own them. I am sorry if that is offencive , but it is just that, MY opinion.
But as for the thread topic..
I have a suggestion. To keep it short and sweet and not about me, I just want to say that I have just gone through some what of the samething. Except that the lack of sex wasnt because of the inability to conceive, it was because we moved in with my husbands widowed mom. Awkwardness KILLED all of my sex drive. Still has.
My husband and I talked and talked and talked.. the idea of sex just didnt even make me feel good. What sex we had was always quickies beacuse we didnt want to be heard. For a woman, quickies suck. Sorry. hehe
Our conclusion was this:
Woman agressor. Man semi-aggressor.
Give her the sexual power. Not the sexual frustration. Do things that make HER want you, not the other way around. Remember women are NOT visual to the extreme men are. So you swinging your schlong aint working.
Love notes. Understanding, talking, hugging, scratching her back, cleaning.. allthose things you SEE her do on a regular basis.. do for her. Give her time to relax. Not bing able to have kids is a damaging thing to a woman who wants one. Give her time to chew on that. She will come around.
I hope that helps. ;-)