@stupidjohn88,
I agree with Punky..... You should have come clean at first if you wanted to. Now the wound is healing and if you tell her it is going to re-open it and it may not heal at all.
I am normally all about honesty but I don't see where telling her would be beneficial at all. If you are truly guilt ridden, perhaps you and your wife could attend one or two counseling sessions separately and you can tell the counselor if you need to.
Cheating in any aspect is very hurtful and damaging to a woman. I hope you learned a lesson and realize you are lucky to have such a wonderful wife. I hope you don't put her through that again. Best of luck to you both.