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Cheated with escort and confessed

 
 
Reply Fri 7 Oct, 2016 04:51 pm
I confessed to my wife about cheating on her with a hooker. I told her it was oral but I also did a very brief vaginal sex. We are currently recovering from my affair and are moving forward. Should I tell her about the vaginal bit? We are in counseling and it happened a couple months ago. She told me she forgives me but I haven't told her about the vaginal bit. I'm scared she won't forgive me because she told me she could handle the oral image but she can't handle the image of her on top of me. Should I tell her that knowingly that it will undo our recovery? Everything has been going good, we are talking more, going on dates more, she is the happiest I have seen her in a long time.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Fri 7 Oct, 2016 08:53 pm
No. You can suffer knowing this all by yourself.
No betterment would come from you giving all the dirty details UNLESS you really want to hurt her or make her push you away. Is that what you really want?
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Reply Thu 9 Mar, 2017 08:21 pm
@stupidjohn88,
I agree with Punky..... You should have come clean at first if you wanted to. Now the wound is healing and if you tell her it is going to re-open it and it may not heal at all.
I am normally all about honesty but I don't see where telling her would be beneficial at all. If you are truly guilt ridden, perhaps you and your wife could attend one or two counseling sessions separately and you can tell the counselor if you need to.
Cheating in any aspect is very hurtful and damaging to a woman. I hope you learned a lesson and realize you are lucky to have such a wonderful wife. I hope you don't put her through that again. Best of luck to you both.
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roger
 
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Reply Thu 9 Mar, 2017 08:31 pm
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