Hmmmmmmmm ...interesting question
I think it becomes a problem if the woman is left unsatisfied because of it. Time after time ....after time.
I would definitely stay with someone that had that problem. By the time we slept together I would have some pretty strong feelings for him anyways. Two people that care about each other should be able to find a solution.
You always hear how it takes a woman much longer then a man to reach orgasm. But that's really not true if the foreplay is there and "just right." A man can bring a woman to such a passionate frenzy with foreplay that she can climax with just his fingertips brushing her body (once he has her right on the edge) And thats WITHOUT penetration OR oral :wink:
Sooooo.....nah! It doesn't have to be a problem as long as both people are open. And the communication is there.
~Brooke