First of all, I absolutely adore Madison. I had a great time. The weather was beautiful. I sat on the grass in front of the capitol, ate my cheese curds and fresh apples, looked at the sozlet next to me, looked down State Street, and started blubbering. Just really emotional for me, being back in Madison. From that vantage point there were literally 10 locations where something significant had happened. That bench over there is where I sat as a brand-new frosh on my first foray to the farmer's market, and looking at the bench I remembered just how I felt, flushed with independence, etc., etc. Eight pretty eventful years of my life happened there.
Anyway.
I like what ehBeth said about huggable. Just so. I was especially smitten with Swimpy, though that predated meeting her, but she is just such a NICE person in the non-pejorative, everything-I-like-about-the-Midwest sense. She's got these great piercing blue eyes, and gives you her whole attention.
ehBeth was also a delight, and I really regretted not having more time to talk to those two one-on-one, or at least in a smaller group. Groups are just way tough for me, even with an interpreter. But the sozlet's skewed sleep schedule (and long-suffering husband dealing with the fallout) plus shuffling of my scheduled visits with Madisonians made that impossible. I ended up spending just the gathering plus a short little meet-up with ehBeth, timber, Swimpy and Setanta the next morning.
While I didn't really have a chance to talk to patiodog and Setanta, it was very satisfying just to see/ meet them. They both have those kinds of eyes that indicate what they are thinking, and they were both just instantly recognizable as themselves. Was really great to make that connection, if brief -- hi there, I know you.
timber is larger than life! He was kinda marooned between Swimpy, who I wanted to talk to and who I could understand/ lipread easily, and the interpreter, who he was NOT supposed to talk to. (While I was talking to Swimpy at that moment, it's the terp's job to literally keep an ear on things so if I miss something I can turn to her and she'll instantly interpret it for me.) The temptation to talk to her was great, though (she's a cool person), and he evidently found it hard to resist. So I yelled at him a bit, which he took in stride... he's used to it.
The rest of the weekend was just fabulous, too. I saw one good friend who I met when she had just started dating this one guy, and I had just started dating this other guy, and we talked about our men a lot and the fact that we thought we maybe found the one we'd be sticking with for a while, and we did... 11 years on, we're both married with kids. Had never met each other's kids, so fun to see them playing together. (The kids LOVED each other, and elicited a promise from sozlet to come visit again soon, so hopefully this will be the first of many Madison visits. It's far, but it's not THAT far.)
More, of course, but I'll stop for now.