@ehBeth,
You can want it, but it isn't going to happen.
I appreciate that you are relating an emotional reaction to war in the abstract, but I am very happy your views don't shape any nation's policy.
For whatever reason, men and women, mostly young, fight in wars. Better that drones take out bad guys then these men and women. There will be collateral death with both means.
For a dove, you have a very romantic notion of war.