What good would it do?
mchalel wrote:i have just never had someone break up with me and then not talk about what went wrong and why.
What good is talking when you never listen? Your communication skills suck. Do you agree or not?
Yes or no: You promised not to get ballistic about his past anymore and you broke your promise.
Yes or no??????
How many times did you think you could verbally abuse him over something he could not change before he figured out that you would never stop hurting him?
What went wrong? You know what went wrong. Stop playing the role of hurt and naive. Stop playing dumb. [Unless you are dumb. But, I doubt that you lack intelligence; you are simply willfully blind to the facts because you want everything to be his fault and nothing to be your fault. Yes or no?]
mchalel wrote:After he told me he was dating someone (but still loves me), I told him that i slept with my ex.
How wonderfully hurtful of you again.
Yes or no: You wanted to hurt him; you wanted him to know how insignificant he was to you; you wanted to cause him pain for breaking up with you. You, you, you....self-centered you.
mchalel wrote:As soon as i said that he was like, you are so f*cking stupid. Then when we briefly talked on the phone he asked if i still love my ex, i said yes, he said F*ck off and hung up on me.
Yes or no: You told your ex-boyfriend that you loved him. Right?
Yes or no: You told your ex-boyfriend that you still loved your (almost) ex-husband so you could hurt him and make him feel insignificant--you wanted him to believe that you didn't really love him after all because you were still in love with your ex. Yes or no?????
How can you pretend to feel hurt because he hung up on you after what you said to him?
When are you going to grow up? I'm glad your boyfriend hung up on you. He shouldn't waste any more of his time on you.
Give us one reason why he should ever want to talk to you again!
mchalel wrote:I called back, he called me a psycho and a nutcase and told me to never call him again (no problem).
Well, aren't you a self-centered, hurtful, verbally-abusive nutcase who is trying to drive him insane?
Please do as he asks--never call him again. That poor man needs to put a lot of distance between himself and you. He needs to find an adult woman who will respect him and appreciate him for the person he is now--instead of a childish female who delights herself in terrorizing him over things he did in his past that he can't change. Right????
mchalel wrote:If he is so happy with his hot model, why would he be so upset about what i've done?
He's probably more upset with himself more than anything else for allowing himself to be sucked into your hurtful, sick, childish, self-centered games.
But there you go again--you think you're the best he ever had and you can't understand why he wouldn't want to be around you. OMG.
Okay mchalel, do you have the slightest clue what has been said to you. I would like to see if you are capable of engaging in effective communication.
Take a sip of coffee, ponder the above, and respond!!!!!