I'm just crushed to found out that a girl I liked for a month now and went out on a date with her and found out she's using the I want to be friends excuse so she can date another guy. Why the heck did she do this to me? I feel so used because she was bored and was looking for a guy looking like Tom Cruise. I'm a nerd by the way. Before all this she was really depressed about her past breakups. I was trying to cheer her up and this is what she does to me?
How old is she? Young girls are often self centred, careless or even ignorant to feeling of others. Particularly young boys, because they don't know struggle young males need to overcome if they are not "popular" and "handsome".
To me, this resembles pretty nasty deed. She should be honest to you. It's perfecly normal if somebody is not attracted to someone, but maybe pretending she is or pulling your nose so she can get closer to your friend is just a **** you don't have to deal with.
IF my assumption is true, I would say you have pretty bad taste in women. You like somebody who does that? Really?
My advice: Talk to her. If what you say is true, screw her. She is not worth your time. But maybe something else is in the case? If you don't know, find out. And respect yourself. If she's bad as you say, find somebody who deserves you. Never let anyone treat you like this. You can do much better.
Being "nerd" is no way insult. If you are IT, soon they will come to you. Because IT guys have GREAT future, every single one of you. Market needs you and so they will come to those who are in demand.