@Frank Apisa,
Frank Apisa wrote:oralloy wrote:Frank Apisa wrote:Is there anyone here saying he/she has never done it?
I've never done it.
You've never embellished the truth, Oralloy???
Not even in that sentence?
Correct. Intentionally making an untrue claim would make me feel icky and squeamish. I much prefer to avoid that discomfort.
Also, I have a philosophy of life that apparently differs from most people. Most people, it seems, only feel validated as a person if they can point to something that makes them seem special or important. This can lead to them wishing they had achieved more things than they actually have done, and to them then embellishing their past. I, on the other hand, don't really care if I ever achieve anything or not. I'm perfectly happy with myself regardless of achievement level. Plus, if I ever did find myself saddled with some silly need to feel above average in order to feel self worth, I could just savor my brain power.
But I'm not trying to act holier than thou or anything. Even if this guy embellished intentionally, I think whatever embarrassment he has suffered is punishment enough. I don't see how this kerfuffle is all that big of a deal.
I'm also not claiming infallibility. I've been
unintentionally wrong before, and likely will be again. In particular, sometimes a side topic will be related enough to a topic of interest that I end up talking about it, but as a mere side topic I hadn't learned nearly as much about it as I should have done before opening my mouth.