@hawkeye10,
Ok, hawkass, exactly where did your wife with the bare credentials actually serve. As a SES manager, your wife would have been my noncom. Where did she serve, and did you manage to tag along as a dependant? I'm not judging, I'm just telling you that even as a civilian supervising non-coms and officers, the military is a lot tougher about infidelity, swinging, autoerotics, bankruptcy, abandoning wives and children, drunk driving (all of which occurs in the non-military family), the military doesn't give a good god damn. Your wife knows this as well, I'm sure she has told you. Be careful on the internet, occasionally, people will recognize your bull ****. The best part is, she can go to the VA, complain you enslaved her, and suddenly you are divorced and your wife collects everything the government awarded her. Go crazy and find a military hating lawyer., you are still screwed, the American Armed Forces, and even the latest lukewarm American patriots, will not be thrilled that their tax dollars let you live a life of perversion. I bet they will see the Military vet as a victim.
I'd still love to hear where she was stationed. There is no way in hell a career type stays state side for 26 years. I was civilian, and I was stationed abroad. I don't remember American contract cooks. Do you.