Why do guys with girlfriends look at me?

Look up my answers to germlat 1 minute ago.I'm getting middleaged.

But I ' m flattered by younger man too. Surely is it allowed to old people to have sex and that is not my term. Nevertheless has nobody else know , image it . To do sex has to keep secret at a certain age.

But to think every old man can do flirt with every young lady isn"t good and shows only ignorance to my declarition .Old men are thinking to are allowed to jump at women and to srew anything with a heartbeat like a young man. That's a bad doing even by a young man , but no less by an old man.

Woman (young & old ) have to get on the ball ,we can't flirt, if we are proper, shy , we can't screw anyth. with a heartbeat, too.

Don't take offence because of my crudely express ( ...screw anyth....) but I found no other translion.

I think it should't bother you. In fact its a good thing that other guys with GF think you are more attractive than theirs.

To ask whether having a partner or not has to pose hidden. Because it might backfired.

Means, when I was directly asked , whether I have a boyfriend I was forced to get use a lie regarding that.

Said I that I am a single , than mostly moslem male use that knowledge for going to far.I am not rassim , because I worked many years with moslems and know, how tough to create a not misunderstanding question . Sometimes I guess that can be a negleted efford to ask like a smarter way. Some moslems are speaking very fluently German after
living there for years and German females seems to be same precious like moslem females. Extremly elevatet aren't those females, I think.
Because of that fact I always said having a partner.

Further does it comes weird if a girl askes for being a single.

If so, than let it sound like Charly Harper ! For instance : Get it...to your spouse , or - don't you get trouble at home , when you 'll call me (Charliy Harper) back ?

But a clever man / woman does discover, detect that phrase.

Now I noticed ....!
Yet....men realize....

They don't realize the wrong doing, the commit about looking to women during holding g.f.s hand.

But how might a man get knowledges about that crime?

Men are used to scann women , why should it be a bad manner to scann women when having arm round her waist.

All women understands this fact. Don't waste any thought about scanning women in the present of own wife , and drooling like a dog in front of a sausage.

I know what you're saying. But--don't get confused here...men do not come in bunches like grapes....they are individuals. Yes, some men will hold their wive's hand while scanning the room....others won't. Same thing with women. Although, as women get older, they may become less overt.

....than younger men...
You don't say?!

I'm joking.

Not to forget a survey at least in Germany , that there should be more pretty women than pretty men.
Every age.

Means , there are 8 ugly men and only 2 handsome one. 5 very beautiful women and 5 ugly one.

Round about that , I agree , when I see what very nice woman is tugged by an ugly man..


It is very tough to get a man , because , when he has a nice face , than he has not enough weight and not enough height.At least 1, 85 m , - ...doesn't care, when the wife has only 1,58m.

Does fit his figure , than he has a wrong face. Does fit both , face & height , than witsdom is missing.

I know , the same problems you can find in women. But there are only 5 misfits women.

More over a young stupid woman hasn't be additional handsomse when she only has to ease an old man.

Sadly there is very often a pretty woman in the bed of an old man.

What a waste....

I've never judged people based on appearances only. I know for many the shiny, loud, gleaming object is the one to get the attention...it's never been the case for me...then, I'm a woman. You're right as to many things you notice BTW. The way I look at it: That's life...but--it doesn't have to be my life.

Is this when I'm supposed to start singing" Blame it on all on my roots, I showed up in boots...and ruined her black tie affair..."?

I'm German myself...I understand the culture. I think what offends you is the "sell out" part right? I'm with you there. There are older guys purchasing ...that's the only way to describe it...younger females. That has always existed and will always continue. In the end, it's a fair exchange for both--the woman gets the security(she's not smart enough to attain for herself) and the guy gets the tight booty he has just purchased. Unless--it's actually love...But then -- I have YET to see a woman marry an older guy who's as broke as she is....that statement alone is true...it pisses a lot of folks off though.

I'm not saying all females are like this...just desperate ones.(wether real or imagined)

....less overtly....I know, that is scaring. I know as well , women and men will scann a room.

Both will look at otherone for more seconds as needed , if it is worth it.

Therefore I would be relaxt in case of my partner . As a teenager I would have grown angry . Confused as well if I would have seen , that my partner would have watched porns in a weird secret way.

Nowadays I would watch together with him or it wouldn' t bother me , if he would watch alone.

To keep watching porns like a secret would makes me feel suspisious over my partner .

Also I would prefer that my partner avoid to scann women by very secret attemps.

In that case it would be better it comes obviously to me.

I'am not stupid! Would my spouse enter a room full of beauties , he would become suspisious or ill, in casd he would have his sight only toward the ground, floor.
Both alternatives would confuse me and not by a kindly way.

He would seem to be a hen packed man or it would me turn to a silly goose which wouldn't notice the comical avoiding sight at other women.

Oh , I can' t discribe it in a better way with my scary English.

It's especially tacky with old farts like me.
We have to put on our glasses and squint.

You're too funny...and yes I get you. To much is too much either way. One must decide what's acceptable to oneself.

I doubt t that...given your posts...

I' m not decide by appearance of someone.
If someone less nice looking human give me hug or we have good talk , then I appreciate this person and I would be helpful toward them in the same certain .

But touch me on a sexuell kind I sadly have to depend it to appearence. I don't as well see an very old woman without bathing - clothes .

Even now I am watching my out - fit , my bathing - clothes , because it is not doing to show his body and more of all not to show a wringled body.

Is it a German culture ? No, because my mum said always to me , what will do with a beautiful dish when it is empty.

A German proverb .
I tried to be touched by a less locking man , because he was that dish I mentioned, because in Germany according a research,there are 2 handsome men in 10.

Later I noticed, I was stick to him , because I didn't want be alone.

Just not finding crowds of men , I prefer to cope with being alone instead to stick with s.one just for having a relationship.

Then I have to except, that I 'm 4,5years alone and the same time in relationships.

I know enough women , which having an old hubby or an less good looking one.

Not all of them , but some wive are non evening
sober.

Did you intend to use the word "crime" here? It it not a crime.

Wow!! I all can say is you sound bitter and jaded ...surely you know some human beings love and respect. Maybe not in abundance...but they truly exist. At the end of the day, you need to know what you are looking for...and what the signs are...I'd rather take a chance than miss out.

Crime ? I didn' t look up for another or better word instead of crime.

In German we call a crime as well , when it don't lead to get arrested or compared with other commits , which is punished by law.


Cheating we call crime to , but has just a double meaning.

Nobody will get behind bars or get a ticket when someone gives his wife a hug during his sight is toward breasts in Germany and nowhere.

I'm guessing not a great handle on ESL. But--I still get her...but then--I'm German.