@ossobuco,
I've been up there twice. I would give it mixed reviews.
Actually, though, I didn't run into any problems with individuals. Quite to the contrary. It's just the traffic, the pace and population density that I couldn't take for long.
As for the people, I have an anecdote that opened up my eyes. I'd taken a girlfriend by motorcycle from MS to upstate NY. I dropped her off and headed back, but my drive chain broke. I was sitting there on the side of the road thinking about how screwed I was (this was long before cell phones), and to my surprise, within about 30 minutes 3 people had stopped to help. One went to get a tow truck, another went to get a new chain (wouldn't let me pay in advance), and the third was a highway patrolman who called my girlfriend and let them know what was going on (had a small bag of weed on me, so I was secretly sweating bullets). That changed my way of thinking about New Yorkers, whether city or state.