... in fact, off the Richter scale of bliss!
YES again., to the person... well, that wasn't how the poll was worded but it is the cruxt, is it not?
doglover wrote:Is it just me or do other women sometimes cry after extremely wonderful, loving and satisfying sex?
And why the hell is that anyway? It makes me wonder if they're married or something.
You must have misunderstood me. :wink:
Doh...you've never been married have you.
ehBeth wrote:ossobuco wrote:YES again., to the person... well, that wasn't how the poll was worded but it is the cruxt, is it not?
Not necessarily.
Um, awash in memories here, re a person - I am so old I have more than one of those indelible memories, what are you saying, that you might remember the sex and not the person? ahh, I am soo old I can agree with that too, although I still remember the person.
Stories...
Oh, never mind.
Doglover, the tears have come a few times from the sheer beauty and joy of the experience. I do think men get a little worried, but soon realize that it is a great compliment.
Doglover asked: "Is it just me or do other women sometimes cry after extremely wonderful, loving and satisfying sex?"
Cry? How about huge uncontrollable sobs? It's like having an emotional orgasm in addition to a physical one. It happened frequently to me. A release at both ends. :wink:
BBB
Wow BBB...you and Diane make me feel better. I thought I was the only woman who experienced tears at that time and in that way. None of my female friends have ever cried (at least they wouldn't admit it if they did) so I thought I was a bit of an oddity.
Diane...the men in my life were terribly confused the first time I cried, but once I explained the reason for my tears to them, a sense of pride, sweetness and deep affection poured out of their being. The room was so thick with emotion you could almost cut it with a knife.
i'm married
the sex is good
but
i've never cried afterwards.
It's mostly about tension for me. Remember that movie, "Broadcast News" I think, where Holly Hunter has a little scheduled crying jag every day? I don't cry very much, in general, but that'll do it now and then if the factors combine -- especially stressed, and especially nice. :-D
Yep to the crying - but only if it is REALLY good - emotionally, or physically.
Don't tell her I told you, but Mrs. cav wept after our first 'encounter'.
It was so damn sweet, I had to marry her.
you know i was going to respond
"Anticipation?
Flirting?
First touch?
When the stupid Bunny ears start going round and round?
I forget, dammit, so shut up and mind yer own business, Wabbit!
Play?
Other stuff?
Entry?
Orgasm?
Afterglow and All the warmth and intimacy and cuddles and soppy stuff?"
all the above plus the eyes the all so important gaze; and now you all add tears............... :wink:
I have to go after the thoughtful, teary group..?
PAIN! When the six month of foreplay has culminated, nerve endings are standing up, screaming; the soft touches drive you to the brink of sanity and you both start grabbing, squeezing, biting, ripping clothes--you don't remember how you got to the floor later...
Two bodies, greedily out of control.
So, the foreplay is key---the out of control mode---and the murmers, ragged breaths and words of pleasure from your partner...
(We always say "Thank you" later.)
