@ossobuco,
Adds, I'm dearly worried for shewolf and daughter J. I'm giving the little I can right now.
I've met them three times, not sure of that count, could be more. Last time a bunch of us went over to a local asian (thai, chinese, some japanese dishes) restaurant and had a good time. Both were completely beautiful. They came back to my house for a bit of time, and wolfie and J met my then dog, Katy. Their hair matched - Katy had your basic shepherd hair, black , a little tan, with some white, but also in certain light, gold and orange streaks. Shewolf's hair was riffled with great color streaks, gorgeous. I should have taken a photo..
I don't know if shewolf can read all this, but if so, I miss you girl.