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Why aren't there many white boys who likes black girls?

 
 
Buttermilk
 
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Sun 27 Apr, 2014 09:03 am
Anyways let me bow out because obviously I hurt billie's feelings in the other thread so now he wants to follow me around like a puppy. Forgive me guys if I derailed this thread with Bill's precense.
BillRM
 
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Sun 27 Apr, 2014 09:03 am
@Buttermilk,
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So, what your saying is she ought to look outside black culture because damn the rest right? She's supposed to look at statistics and say "yeah well every black guy even if he is educated grew up with principles and wants kids and a family and a good job is still not good enough!" Right!!! very good logic then again, you think minority means black.


All you can say is the odds are far more in her favor all other things being equal for her to find a solid lifetime mate in the white community then in the black community as the figures tend to show.

It can not say anything about any one individual such as yourself as after all she could end up marrying a black man who will become the second black president and more important a loyal and loving husband and fathers it just as of now the odds are better on the white side of the fence then the black side of the fence.
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Germlat
 
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Sun 27 Apr, 2014 09:09 am
@BrianaMonique,
Initial attraction can get the motor running, but it can keep it going. As you get to know people...past color, social stature, height, weight, etc, you find individual attributes, chemistry ( in all senses), are the things that really make a difference.
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Lash
 
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Sun 27 Apr, 2014 09:55 am
@Buttermilk,
I was kidding, goofball.
BillRM
 
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Sun 27 Apr, 2014 09:58 am
Quote:



http://www.economist.com/node/21532296


A black male professor kicks up a storm about black women and marriage
Oct 15th 2011 | LOS ANGELES | From the print edition
Timekeeper

AT SOME events on his book tour, black men have accused Ralph Richard Banks of advocating genocide. In fact, the Stanford professor of family law has merely written a book called “Is Marriage for White People? How the African-American Marriage Decline Affects Everyone”. But abuse is what you get for suggesting, as Mr Banks does, that black women—not only the “most unmarried” group in American society but also the one that least intermarries with other races—should look to white, Latino or Asian men as potential mates. After all, the alternative is often no marriage or relationship at all.

The collapse of marriage among blacks is well documented (see chart), but not the sexual, psychological, emotional and social toll this has taken on black women. Seven out of ten are single. Of the others, many are forced into “man-sharing”.

This crisis in the black “relationship market”, as Mr Banks calls it, starts with a “man shortage”. About one in ten black men in their early thirties are in prison. As a group, black men have also fallen behind in education and income, just as black women have surged ahead. Two black women graduate from college for every black man. As these women rise into the middle class, the men stay in the lower class, becoming less compatible.

Many black women respond by “marrying down, but not out,” as Mr Banks puts it. But that makes bad marriages. Two out of every three black marriages fail, about twice the rate of white marriages.

The real problem is the behaviour of those few black men who are considered good catches. They often stay unmarried for the opposite reason: they have too many options. As one man told Mr Banks: “If you have four quality women you're dating and they're in a rotation, who's going to rush into a marriage?” Even black men who nominally commit to one woman are five times as likely as their white counterparts to have others on the side.

One way or another, many black women thus become, or stay, single (as two of Mr Banks's three sisters are). As one woman tells him: “We focus on our careers, our friends, go back to school, whatever. We fill our lives with other things.” But in the hundreds of interviews Mr Banks conducted, he found pervasive sadness.

The most obvious solution, he discovered, also runs into the greatest taboo: intermarriage. This is ironic, because black men are statistically very open to marrying outside their race—more than one in five does. But fewer than one in ten black women intermarries.

For some black women, a white husband brings bad memories of slavery and Jim Crow. Others have conditioned themselves to find non-black men unattractive (lacking “swag”, in the argot). Still others fear that men of other races find black women unattractive, or that their children might be “not black enough”. But by far the most common reason seems to be that black women still regard intermarriage as tantamount to betraying the race. “My black heart,” says one black woman as she contemplates marrying out, “I would need to turn it in.” “We know it's a struggle,” says another, “but we women got to stand by the black man. If we don't, who will?”
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Buttermilk
 
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Sun 27 Apr, 2014 11:10 am
The sad part about this thread is Bill is trolling making racial prejudiced claims derailing this thread and I'm the only one saying something. Okay officially done.
Buttermilk
 
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Sun 27 Apr, 2014 11:11 am
@Lash,
Whatever you say
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Lash
 
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Sun 27 Apr, 2014 11:18 am
@Lash,
I put the smiley on it.
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BillRM
 
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Sun 27 Apr, 2014 08:09 pm
@Buttermilk,
Quote:
Bill is trolling making racial prejudiced claims derailing this thread


LOL trolling and being prejudiced by quoting a black professor who book on the problems that black women have in finding black men as husbands have been reviewed in the Wall Street Journal and the Economist and his conclusion that black women should follow black men examples and look to marrying outside the black community?

Sorry but even whites talking about the problems in the black community is not being racial as must as you might wish to used those kind of charges to made such subjects taboo.

PS I have two mixed race daughters in my own family who did ended up marrying white not black men.
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izzythepush
 
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Mon 28 Apr, 2014 03:41 am
@Buttermilk,
Don't worry about hurting BillRM's feelings, he's horrible. He describes people who watch child pornography as "productive members of society." His ex-wife had to get a restraining order against him. He was thrown out of a local park for trying to entice small children over with a box of kittens.

And he almost pulled his cock off when Trayvon Martin was murdered.
BillRM
 
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Mon 28 Apr, 2014 09:20 am
@izzythepush,
My my attacking me for doing things I am very proud of myself for doing beginning with the kittens.

I was not "thrown" out of a park but the excuse for telling me I could not be in the park at the time was that I had animals with me in a park that did not allow animals.

Being a male white or black you are assume to be evil and my only error was not having my wife along with me while trying to find homes for some kittens that had shown up at my doorstep.

I have nothing to be ashame of in my spending one hell of a lot of efforts and dollars with the park just being one small part in finding hopefully good homes for those kittens instead of turning my back on them and allowing them to have short and unhappy lives.


As long as I live I will remember the last kitten that I adopt out in the arms of a happy little girl leaving Pet Smart

http://i1135.photobucket.com/albums/m627/BillRM/Kittensinhammock3.jpg
Two of the kittens at Pet Smart

http://i1135.photobucket.com/albums/m627/BillRM/Thefourkittensandmothereating.jpg

Mother and kittens after I had taken them in. Footnote I still have the mother to this day.



Next the lady that I was stupid enough to married lied to a court under oath as the only one hit in that marriage was me and that was in front of two witnesses and once I found out she had done so I filed for divorce and got rid of her.

There is no shame in being a victim of domestic violence/abuse even when you are a male instead of a female or having your attacker being willing to lied under oath for that matter.

Trayvon assaulted and try to kill Zimmerman and a jury found that Zimmerman acted in self defense so I do not see the issue in agreeing with the jury in this matter.
izzythepush
 
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Mon 28 Apr, 2014 09:39 am
@BillRM,
Excuses, excuses, repeat them long enough and you just might believe them.

Normal people don't take boxes of kittens to the park. Normal people, who are genuinely interested in rehousing kittens, use animal shelters and the small ads. People who take boxes of kittens into children's play areas uninvited, tend not to be concerned about animal welfare, they have other things on their mind.
BillRM
 
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Mon 28 Apr, 2014 10:09 am
@izzythepush,
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Normal people don't take boxes of kittens to the park. Normal people, who are genuinely interested in rehousing kittens, use animal shelters and the small ads.


Sorry the only animal shelter that would take them in was the public shelter that would put them down if homes was not found for them in short order as in a day or two. For some reason they put cats down a great deal faster then dogs.

I did find two of the kittens homes with the help of animal welfare group that allowed me to show them at Pet Smart along with their animals.

Two of the other kittens was found homes by my putting many dozens of flyers around the area. I got no responses from my adv. on craigslist or the Miami Herald however.

As far as the park is concern my wife suggested that I try walking over to the small park next to our home stating she had found homes for puppies years before by having her daughters taking them to a park.

Neither of us thinking at the time that unlike young girls with puppies a man with kittens are look upon as likely having evil intentions. If it had occurs to either of us I would had just have my wife walk over with me.

As I had said I have zero to be a shame of in going far out of my way in order to find home for kittens that otherwise was looking to have short and ugly lives
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glitterbag
 
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Mon 28 Apr, 2014 12:46 pm
@BillRM,
BillRM wrote:

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I know, I've had the unfortunate situation of being the recipient of a mother who found out I was dating her daughter and thought it was necessary to ask if I had any felonies


As long as such facts as one in three adult black males in Florida can not vote due to having felony records still are valid such concerns are sadly driven by reality and not necessarily racism.


So sayeth the freaking Mahatma Gandi of A2K
gungasnake
 
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Mon 28 Apr, 2014 12:59 pm
@BrianaMonique,
Mainly fear and complexity... One thing I've always sort of admired about black women is that they come in the larger sizes and can still walk and chew gum at the same time. That can be an edge if YOU're taller; white guys over 6' spend their entire lives looking at the tops of the heads of 95% of white women who are a foot shorter than they are. Many, sooner or later, come to a point at which, everything else being roughly equal, size matters more than color...
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BillRM
 
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Mon 28 Apr, 2014 01:04 pm
@glitterbag,
Quote:
So sayeth the freaking Mahatma Gandi of A2K


Sadly we are warehousing far too large a percent of our total black male population in the nation prisons at great cost in both human terms and economic terms.

For every black man who are in college or who have received a degree there are two black women who had done so.

Roughly eight out of ten black children are being born out of wedlock.

Black women as a group are the least likely to be married in their lives.

Pretending the problems does not exist and calling those who address the situation as racist KKK members are not doing the black community any favor.

So glitterbag does it made you feel better by name calling those who are willing to bring the matter into the public square?

As this kind of nonsense is mainly only a few generations old there is no reason to think that it can not change over time also.
izzythepush
 
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Mon 28 Apr, 2014 01:10 pm
@BillRM,
BillRM wrote:
So glitterbag does it made you feel better by name calling those who are willing to bring the matter into the public square?


When the racist in question jerks off to the murder of Trayvon Martin, yes.

And a racist would pin all the blame on black men instead of considering other possibilities that challenge that racist's world view.

Quote:
An African-American convicted of a low-level drug crime in Cook County is eight times more likely than his white counterpart to face prison time for it, according to a new report released yesterday.

The report, published by the Disproportionate Justice Impact Study Commission, analyzed arrest data from 2005, the most recent year that complete data is available. It was commissioned by the General Assembly in 2008 to research the notion that minorities -- and particularly young black men in inner cities -- were disproportionately subjected to drug arrests, prosecution and sentencing.

That's just what the report found.

Class 4 possession laws, the least severe felony charges, accounted for the majority of racial disproportionality in incarceration, the Commission writes. In Cook County, home to Chicago, Class 4 possession accounted for the majority of all arrests in 2005. Few of those charged only with Class 4 (and not with some other crime, drug or violent) were sentenced to jail terms. But the overwhelming majority of those who were, by an eight-to-one ratio, were black.

Most Class 4 cases were dropped, at roughly equal rates among nonwhites (45 percent) and whites (40 percent). But of those cases that were continued, white defendants were nearly twice as likely (36 to 19 percent) to be sentenced to court supervision or probation.


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/02/01/blacks-far-more-likely-th_n_817105.html

In other words if a black man had been caught in a park with a box of kittens he would, (quite rightly,) have gone to jail. You escaped justice because you're white, with a white wife prepared to back up your, (highly implausible,) story.
BillRM
 
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Mon 28 Apr, 2014 02:01 pm
@izzythepush,
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When the racist in question jerks off to the murder of Trayvon Martin, yes.


So anyone who dare to agree with the jury verdict is a racist?

Quote:
And a racist would pin all the blame on black men instead of considering other possibilities that challenge that racist's world view.


Who said that the unreasonable drug laws and so on that had resulted in such a large percents of the total black male population behind bars and or with criminal records is the fault of the black community?

Hell when my wife was just out of college and was working as a low level social worker she needed to do late nights checks on the apartments of mainly blacks families receiving welfare to check for any indication of there being men living in the apartments.

Would you care to find any statements of mine that the generations long problems of the black community is all the doing of the blacks themselves?

It not the fault of blacks that the welfare system at the time worked to keep the men out of black families that needed help for example.

Still no matter what all the complex history of how we got here is when a black man father his children out of wedlock he is the one doing the most harm to his own children.

Fair or not it is the black community that need to carry the main burden of improving the situation for themselves and their children.


izzythepush
 
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Mon 28 Apr, 2014 02:40 pm
@BillRM,
BillRM wrote:

Quote:
When the racist in question jerks off to the murder of Trayvon Martin, yes.


So anyone who dare to agree with the jury verdict is a racist?


You went way beyond agreeing with a jury, you made all sorts of crazy stuff up. You reminisced about you went stomping around your neighbourhood just after a hurricane, all tooled up, and getting moist at the prospect of a young black lad stumbling into view.
BillRM
 
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Mon 28 Apr, 2014 03:32 pm
@izzythepush,
Quote:
You went way beyond agreeing with a jury, you made all sorts of crazy stuff up.


Would you care to back up that silly claim by any of my postings?

Quote:
you reminisced about you went stomping around your neighbourhood just after a hurricane, all tooled up, and getting moist at the prospect of a young black lad stumbling into view.


I did? Sorry some of my neighbors did do patrols around my neighborhood arms with everything up to shotguns after hurricane Andrew however I did not take any part in doing so. Would you care to show any postings that said otherwise by me? You do love to made things up.

Oh as far as blacks are concern my community was way out in the farm lands and no where near any large black population centers so while the concerns was surely looters it was no focus on black looters.

The one "gentleman" I found with a ten tons hydraulic jack of mine in his hands was as white as myself.

 

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