@firefly,
I have a Cousin who has Autism and I am hoping people do not view this as a mental illness, because it is my understanding that they are Genius's, very smart people, just locked away and generally very calm people. There has to be something else in this. Yet, like any person, they can break and it does not stem from this rather, something that happened in their life.
The mere fact that he chose little children was not genius, it was dispicable, heart renching.
It is my understanding that, Nancy Jean Lanza sued Peter John Lanza for divorce on November 24, 2008 -- three days before Thanksgiving, Connecticut court records show. It seems that Nancy had a passion for collecting guns and possibly in her remote farm, taught the children (two boys) how to aim and fire those guns. It seems that she fought with the school and had him home schooled.
She visited her neighbours playing parlor games frequently.
He, played video games frequently and wore Khaki pants, carried a lap top case around with him, was highly intelligent with computers...
His Father, recently re-married, and it is just after Thanksgiving, 4 years later.
More than likely he blammed his Mother as she was the one that divorced his Father. More than likely she taught them to use guns and allowed him to play such video games and dress in a military style fashion around the house and more than likely, as it is just past Thanks giving he snapped. And, hated the school for taking "his childhood away" by making him even more a loner and by making him feel that he did not deserve school, friends.
But, that does not give him the right, to target "babies" just because that school rejected him.
And, I think If this is correct, his Mother was extremely in the wrong, teaching them about guns. It is my understanding you have to be 21 before you can even handle a gun. It was suggested that she taught them from 17.
I'm deeply saddened about all of this.. And, I can't help but also feel that his Father, may have left him as well.. Favouring his new life, new wife and that triggered this as he just recently over Thanks giving, 4 years later, re-married.
On another note, and I know this is about the children, but, if he loved his Mother deeply and they were the only two that lived together, the only person he really saw and he was distrubed he could have taken her life, to be with him, knowing he would take his.
I think parents MUST be more responsible and not teach "children" how to use guns...Should not leave guns where "children" can access them, and I call him a child because I was still a "child" at 16. We are not Adults at that age. If he didn't know how to use them, didn't know how to reach time or was unable to, he would not have been able to kill so many beautiful litte beings that now have no chance to know what life is about...
And, if his Father, had little contact the past 4 years, then that is sad too. Because marriages break down, but your committment to your children and love shouldn't. No amount of money he supposidly paid his ex-wife out so she did not have to work any more is worth anything, if your child suffers emotionally and has no one...and no where to turn.