@GracieGirl,
Quote:I just wanna stay home because when I have it I feel like everybody can tell and it's embarrassing. Plus it hurts and I get headaches and I worry about leaks and stuff
Why do you feel embarrassed? It's a perfectly normal bodily function.
I remember how awful the cramps could be when I was in my teens, and I often felt nauseous as well. But I think I preferred going to school because then I was somewhat distracted from the discomfort--if I stayed home in bed I actually felt more miserable because I was more focused on what was bothering me.
If you use both a tampon and a pad, and change the tampon throughout the day, you really don't have to be too concerned about leaks, even if your flow is heavy.
Or treat yourself to a pair of panties designed to prevent leaks if that will help you to feel more confident.
http://www.remiiunderwear.com/servlet/StoreFront
Do OTC pain relievers, like Midol or Pamprin, help you with your cramps and headaches? They both come in several different formulations and people often find that one formulation works better for them than the others do, so sometimes it takes some experimenting to find the one that works best.
You might also want to try a heat-producing patch.
http://www.thermacare.com/product/menstrual.aspx?source=Google$Menstrual$menstrual%20pain%20relief$menstrual%20pain%20relief$Broad
Someone suggested Yoga to you and I also found that doing some exercise helped to relieve my menstrual discomfort. Even though you really don't feel like excercising when you feel crappy, doing a little might help.
http://women.webmd.com/features/exercise-eases-menstrual-cramps
Quote:girls can't get medicine to stop periods
Some forms of extended cycle birth control pills can reduce the number of times a year you get your period or stop menstruation.
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/womens-health/WO00069/NSECTIONGROUP=2
Personally, I don't think that's something you should consider right now--these drugs can have serious side effects. I'd try other remedies first and see if you can find something that helps to relieve your symptoms without creating potential other problems.