Is dating someone who's a different race okay?

Wow Bill! Have a thumbs up!

You're on ignore!

I hope you die a slow and painful death. That's how much I hate you.

Have a very nice day!

How is Blue Eyes doing, Bill??
I like his race.





David

Gracie, don't waste a second of your life on hating her. Instead, use that second to continue being the wonderful human being that you already are.

gracie, that's not the right attitude.

no matter how tightly you wrap it up, hate gets on you...

rather than hating Pam, I wish her enough misfortune that she has to rely on folks of color to continue living or at least prospering.

that she may get an opportunity to eat her words, and choke on them if she must.

but not an ounce of hatred from me...

Gracie, what Buttrflynet and the Rockhead said. Life's waaay too short to be wasting time on such negative emotions as hate. I try not to hate anybody. Oh, I may get angry and blow my top but it never leads to actually hating the person that I'm angry at. A very wise person once told me this: "Have you noticed that when you point a finger at someone, there are three fingers pointing back at you?"

We all have certain biases and certain blind spots. I try to follow the advice which most of the Christian churches teach -- hate the sin, not the sinner. I don't hate Pamela; I despise everything she posts and everything she stands for, however.

I'm sorry. I shouldn't have said that. That was too harsh maybe. I didn't mean it but people like her deserve it, at least a little. She says mean and hurtful stuff about other people so I'm gonna say mean things about her. She should know how it feels.
Everything she says is just soo stupid. Shes posted racists threads and people have told her she's being insulting and she should stop but she keeps doing it. Like, enough already. she doesn't care about what other people think or feel so I don't care if I hurt her feelings or say mean stuff to her.

I know what I'm saying sounds wrong or whatever and maybe I'm being bratty but I don't care. I shouldn't have said that I hope she dies, I didn't mean that but Im not sorry for saying I hate her. I hope she read it and I hope it hurt her feelings or upset her atleast a little. I'm sure she's said worst stuff to other people.

People like her justs makes me mad and annoyed and frustrated. I dont understand her at all. Ugh! Pamela with her dumb links and stupid statistics. It's funny how grownups like her think they know everything when they obviously know nothing at all.

Pamela I hope one day you realize how stupid and wrong you are and stop judging people by how they look, their race or their religion. None of that's important. What matters is what kind of person they are and how they treat other people. You cant judge someone by their race. Why are you soo bothered by anyone different from you? It makes me sad to think they're other people like you. I hope I never meet them and I hope that when I grow up people like you stop being so freaking stupid.

I use to think grownups knew everything. Guess I was wrong. Or maybe you just never grew up? Either way, sucks to be you.

Butrflynet, your really nice and your right and I'm sorry.
I don't think I'm as wonderful of a person as you think I am. I'll try to be though.

I shouldn't have said what I did about her dying. I usually don't say stuff like that at all. Honest. I just get really defensive when people say stupid and mean stuff. I have friends that are black, not many because of where I live, but a few. And they're nice and Ty (my friend, hes black) is the sweetest person ever and he has a really awesome family. When Pamela says that stuff she's insulting them when she doesnt even know them. If Ty or his family saw some of the things she posts they'd be hurt. They don't deserve that. Pamelas mean and a liar and a racist. I hate her and she deserves it.

Do not feel too bad about your feelings toward her as people like Pamela and thinking like hers had been responsible for the death and misery of countless millions of human beings over the centuries.

In Haiti for example thirty thousands of average black slaves was work to death every year on sugar plantations and needed to be replaced decade after decade.

The Pamelas of this world would like to see us return to such treatments of fellow human beings.

So she is far more evil then just being insulting to your friends.

You're white trash.

Now back on topic. I was a bit concerned what my mother would think of me dating a non Puerto Rican then she met the Jewish Princess and loves him to death.

Yeah, but you can still chuckle at the thought of her drowning in a vat of sewage. Makes me smile.

I've had Pamela Rosa on ignore since the ignore button showed up.

I don't mean that I don't read entries I, being me, don't agree with, I do, and sometimes learn from them - just that if they are repetitively vile, I cut them out.

Hey, I told you everybody isn't nice here.

You were soo right, Aunt Osso. At least Im losing some of my naivety, right?

You're good to go, Gracie.

Mind yourself, re health, we care about you.

Thanks!

I will. Promise.

well, i'm glad.

Haha! Thanks!

Glad about health or naivety? Lol

I would like to understand the difference, Pamela. In point of fact, I don't have the foggiest as to what a speciesist is.

it's a type of bigot, JT...