@JTT,
Okay JTT- what I mean is that I read a lot of statements that illuminate the fact that there seems to be less sympathy for America and Americans in situations such as this than there would be if something like this happened in another country.
And I don't understand why or how people have to politicize someone else's loss.
But then, you know, now that I think about it, maybe I'm wrong. Maybe there's just a general lack of sympathy or empathy these days.
I remember a thread around the time of the Haittian earthquake and reading that certain members of this forum didn't feel moved or inclined to provide aid to those people.
I also remember the thread about famine relief in the Sudan and reading that most of the respondents felt no need to respond to that. Someone even said that those children were so damaged by malnutrition anyway that they were something like 'shadow people' and would never be able to function in life and would just be a drag on society so in other words - **** em.
Seriously I remember thinking, 'Oh - so why don't we just do the merciful thing right now and shoot these shadow children in the head to put them out of their misery instead of watching them slowly starve to death on the side of the road?' Is that what we should do?
There are more people in the world now dying of obesity than starvation and we can't get it together to feed these children...why?
Lack of empathy or sympathy among HUMANS - we can't separate it into nationalities. We as HUMANS on this planet are watching children starve and suffer while there's so much more food than we know what to do with that some of us are stuffing it down our gullets until it kills us!
Yeah - and then I talk about my dad's death and I get a snide, sarcastic remark.
I'm a paragon? Of what or why? Because I can sympathize and empathize and realize that other people have feelings just as I do?
Yikes - that's pretty scary - if that's the metric for achieving the heights of 'paragon-hood' these days- or maybe that's just on a2k.
But it just goes to show...
And in terms of what has gone on in Nicaragua and Cambodia, while that's not the matter under discussion here, when it is I have to say I've never heard anyone say, 'Why don't those people just get the hell over it? What was the big deal? Why do they have to keep talking about it?'
But you're right, America and Americans can seem to be very self-involved and as if they believe their piece of the planet is the hub or center of the universe and what happens there is very important to them (us).
What I'm asking is, 'Is that so different from the reaction you'd get from anyone else in any other country when a tragedy strikes close to home?'
I'll tell you what I still think about ten years later...all of those first responders who gave their lives that day. I still tear up when I think about that. Yeah - and if I'd been in NY on Sept.11th, I'd have been standing there honoring them.
But that doesn't mean I don't think about anyone else around the rest of the world. You can actually do both.
Oh - sorry - am I acting like a paragon again?
Whatever.