@Green Witch,
Green Witch wrote:
I'm not saying it's okay. I'm saying Americans act like they are the only ones who it has ever happened to. This is because they are ignorant of what is really going on in the world today and in history.
I believe you are mistaken in both statements. While I don't have the numbers of those murdered in Rwanda, the number was huge and that's not even counting the ones mutilated and crippled for life. Same for Sierra Leone, and Iraq. If the remaining people of Rwanda want a memorial to that part of their past and remind the world of what the survivors are going through today (people had feet and even hands chopped off for being born into the wrong tribe), I say they are welcome to it. I have not an ill thought or word to express against it. I am not going to tell them to set it all aside and remember the Holocaust, and that they are being very self centered if they don't.
So I'm not the Citizen of the World you think we should all be. So what? I'm most concerned about what happens to family, friends, and acquaintences. Beyond that, my grief and compassion extend first to other Americans. The rest of the world comes farther down the line.
I'm sorry you're tired of hearing of three thousand people killed, and thousands of others with injuries and disabilities from which they may never recover. You might consider my feelings toward some hypothetical memorial service in Rwanda. If they want it, let them have it and don't try to diminish any expression of grief or regret they may chose to express.