I still think this is bullshit. And let me begin by saying I am going to get more than a few "hates" due to this post but as usual, I don't care.
Parents have such little (perceived) responsibility now anyway with their kids, let’s just take one more decision away from them and make it easier for kids to walk all over their parents. Hell, let's like the kids AND the government run our lives. That will make a great country to live in. One where we get fucked from every angle. Who needs decision making anyway??
The parents who think that McDonalds "lures" kids in are the ones who can't say no. They are the ones who have wild kids in the stores. Unruly kids on the playground. They are the parents who'd rather say yes to appease their 5 year old than to say no and let them scream for 10 minutes. They are the ones who raise brats, bullies and general lazy-ass-entitled-self righteous pricks. The neighbors probably think I try to kill my kid at least once a week the way she screams sometimes. I am not mean to my daughter. I don't hurt her. I don't even yell 98% of the time. However, I REFUSE to negotiate on certain issues. Can she have another cookie? Maybe I'll bend. Does she need to go to bed when it's bed time? Absolutely.
Story for point:
Last night, she didn't want to come in and bathe, and she was so dirty, there was no way she was eating at my dinner table like that; dirt on legs, arms, under nails, face....you name it, it was dirty. I asked for her to go in the house and let grandma help her bathe. She declined. I asked again. She declined. I then stopped asking and told her to go in the house. She still refused. So I just picked her up, screaming, snotting, thrashing pile of "I hate you mom" and took her in, where I calmly walked up the stairs with her unceremoniously flung over my shoulder. I locked us in the bathroom, drew a bath, plunked her in and started bathing her. It took all of 5 minutes, I got her out, still crying and throwing a fit, wrapped her in a towel and set her on the floor to finish her tirade. She finally calmed down and we went to get dressed and go eat.
Point of the story: My four year old is 4.
I am the parent. I do what's best for her regardless of her current idea is what is best, even if that means a thrashing, screaming pile of arms and legs. If she wants McDonalds (for whatever reason, be it toy or food) I decide if she gets it. Not her. Not the government. Not the health food nuts. Not McDonalds.
No one forces my hand with my kid.
Parents who blame McDonalds have bigger problems than a fast food joint; they have kids running the show.
I for one do not want anyone dictating to me what I can and cannot eat. Or what my kids can and cannot eat. Parents need to shut the **** up about all the things that tempt their kids, MAN UP and start being parents. WE are the adults. WE are the ones in charge. If you're not the one calling the shots in your household, you're doing it wrong and that is your own fault; not McDonalds. There are a million things in life that will tempt our kids. They need to learn to deal with the temptation and then deal with disappointment or the consequences of their actions.
I agree that many parents out there are uneducated and make poor decisions for their kids. But it's been that way since the dawn of time and we've managed to make it this far. Parents have been ruining their kids since time began. Before it was McDonalds, it was spanking or whipping. Or grounding. Or allowing your kid out after 8. Or makeup. Or mini skirts. Or dating. Or the dance. Or or or or or....I could go on and on and on. There will always be bad parents. But why in gods name do we want to make it easier for parents to not be parents??? The difference now is that we've made it easier for parents to allow "soft" kids who can't handle ****.
**Disclaimer: There will be certain circumstances in which this dynamic does not exist or is more challenging due to mental/emotional issues. The above post is meant for 99% of the population.