@BillRM,
Quote:. So if I had a consensus sexual encounter with a woman paid for or not and the woman later pressed false charges it is my fault for having the sex with her in the first place?
You can manufacture hypothetical situations from now to doomsday, but they will illuminate nothing about this case.
No matter what went on that hotel suite, whatever happened happened very quickly after she entered what she believed was an empty suite to clean it--and she did not remain in the suite very long. Given that situation, DSK would have had to be the one who initiated whatever transpired.
So, either one believes that the former head of the IMF took one look at this maid who had entered his room and suddenly decided to attack her, giving the matter no thought at all, or one believes he took one look at her, made her an immediate monetary offer, that she rapidly agreed to, and, without any thought about it, she gave him oral sex, and he attempted unprotected vaginal sex. In either of these scenarios, you have an ostensibly intelligent man making a snap, really split-second, decision, to suddenly engage in sexual contact with a strange woman who had just entered his suite to clean it--a man who knew full well that there might be people who would want to set him up for a sex scandal, and who had absolutely no reason, at all, to trust this woman he didn't know from a hole in the wall and that he had just laid eyes on.
The man doesn't think, BillRM, he doesn't consider consequences before he acts, he's reckless, and, consequently, very self destructive. Of course, he's responsible for his behavior, and for the repercussions of his behavior, and what he's just done to himself, his career, and his family, because of that behavior. He's got some serious personal problems, and he just brought about his own downfall because of those problems.
And I don't doubt that the maid who got caught up in this mess has a load of problems of her own. Not only was she inconsistent in the narrative she gave to prosecutors, she fabricated for no logical reason. Making up the gang rape story for them makes no logical sense--it was unrelated to the situation with DSK, and she didn't need that story to make them believe her about DSK--they had already arrested him. Her changing versions of what she did immediately after the alleged attack make little sense either--except maybe she really was attacked, and she was emotionally rattled afterward, and didn't clearly recall what she did, or unless she really didn't trust the prosecutors and her changing versions were foolish attempts to protect herself from them--but just deliberately lying about it to prosecutors, for no reason at all, doesn't make sense. And she really had no clear motive to make a false accusation about DSK--immigrant women generally are not fast to go to authorities with sexual assault complaints, immigrants tend to be leary of getting involved with law enforcement, and the thought she would make a fast decision to willingly get herself involved in a criminal matter just so she could eventually lodge a civil suit to get money from him, is really quite a stretch.
Diallo may well have been telling the truth about an actual sexual assault, and she seems to have been consistent on the details of the assault, but she was so inconsistent about some other things, and at times so emotionally and behaviorally inappropriate with prosecutors (they described her as rolling on the floor of their conference room when she became upset at one point), that they must have been going out of their minds with her. And the more agitated and upset the prosecutors got with her, the worse her behavior with them probably got, and, that's probably why, after Thompson got involved in the case, he kept her away from them for a while just to defuse things. And she might have trusted Thompson more because he is also black, which is why she was apparently more honest with him than she was with the prosecutors. So, even though she might have been sexually assaulted, from a prosecutor's point of view this woman would be a loose canon on the witness stand, they couldn't be sure of what she'd say, which would be a main reason they couldn't go to trial. And the fabricated gang-rape story, apparently convincingly told, was just bizarre--there was no need for that story. I really suspect that prosecutors concluded the woman was slightly crazy and they wanted no part of this, despite any pressure on them to go to trial, and that's what their battle with Thompson was about.
This is not a scheming, sophisticated, con woman. This is not a woman with a lot of savvy or smarts. You've given this woman far too much credit for attributes she doesn't seem to have.This is not a woman who even understands she has to play it straight with law enforcement, otherwise she needlessly, very needlessly, digs herself into a mess. By the time Thompson got involved I think she had already irretrivably damaged her relationship with the D.A.'s office (she had already told them the gang rape story) and his attempts at damage control made matters worse. I tend to believe Thompson's characterization of Diallo as "a simple woman"--she is uneducated, illiterate, and worked hard at a decently paying, but menial, job, and really had no idea what she was in for when she reported her sexual assault, particularly because she probably could not have imagined that her complaint would make headlines all over the world.
To think that this woman even had the cunning to deliberately go after DSK with a false accusation, that would have to have been suddenly conceived after a brief, hurried, and totally unanticipated, consensual encounter went wrong, does not at all ring true for me. If money crossed her mind, it was the next day, after she really found out who he was, and that he had deep pockets.
To say that DSK made reckless moves, consensual or otherwise, on the "wrong woman" is an understatement. And, what happened to him, as a result of those moves, was his own damn fault and he should be grateful that the consequences to himself weren't even worse in terms of years in prison. Most of all, he should be grateful that this woman has so many screws loose that she even spared him the ordeal of a trial because the prosecutors couldn't use her to make their case.
This whole incident has been a mess, and DSK caused the mess. He's no way the victim in this saga, except as the victim of his own self destructive tendencies, but he's sure left a lot of damage to other people in the wake of his reckless actions in that hotel suite.