@hawkeye10,
Hawkeye I am not the heavy weight camp of the world yet when my ex wife begin to smack me I had no problem stopping her.
Of course then she went to the courts and claimed under oath that I was the one who hit her.
That fact that she would lied about such an act cause me to go to my lawyer and file for divorce at once and I never lay eyes on her afterward.
Second, if it was not for the fact that the court clerk misspell my name on the do not assault order that resulted from her lying if even now 30 years later I would be charge with a crime again some woman they could pull up that order and claimed that it prove that I had a history of being violence toward women.
I happen to know that because I look on the court clerk online records under the misspell name and it was there thirty years later and it was there.
Footnote my lawyer at the time stated it was no big deal and I should not brother to fight the order damn him as I had two witnesses to the attack by her not me.