@Linkat,
Yes, staying home in most cases is a full time job. There are many women and men who do all that, that you have described, and have a full time job.
T here was a short phase in my life i was fortunate enough to stay home with my toddler, and do my chores. There is a certain 'niceness' to being home.
Most of my life, i work(ed) full time+ ... and did all the house and yard work.
Freeloader, as in, example only, a woman getting up Monday thru Friday, in the morning, working as a secretary, 9 hours those days... She has a part time job on the weekend, somewhere, let's say, a convenience store.
Her husband/boyfriend is a construction worker... example only. He has no work at the moment, maybe next week. He might do the dishes, eh, he will mow the grass later, he wants to go hang out with his buddy right now.