@plainoldme,
plainoldme wrote:While you claim to be intelligent,
you never claim to be nice.
Plain, this is the very first time
that I must agree with u.
I never claimed that.
plainoldme wrote: I have used fora previously and you never cited me for being correct,
have you now? Of course not!
I never did.
It did not occur to me to do so,
but
if I HAD, then don't u think that 'd have sounded
patronizing and condescending ?
U might have deemed me
rude,
for acting as if I were your dad, if I had complimented u.
Possibly, u might have taken it
as an insult,
but even so, I see the merit of your point.
Maybe I shoud apologize.
In the future, if I see u say something above
average, like getting fora right,
I will comment upon it, now that I know
that u will not be offended.
plainoldme wrote:You even argue with me when you are wrong, as you are in this case.
From the free online dictionary:
fo·rum (fôrm, fr-)
n. pl. fo·rums also fo·ra (fôr, fr)
Note that "fora" is the secondary and not the primary plural.
Let us be mindful
that we shoud not attribute
a God-like omniscience to lexicografers.
Some years ago, I was helping the wife
of my friend, Donald, to learn better English.
She is a refugee from Red China.
She came to NY to study medicine
and Donald married her. She was
an admitted medical doctor back in China.
Anyway, she was applying for better medical
certification to be admitted to practice
as a health care professional in NY,
but she needed better vocabulary to pass tests.
I got some vocabulary books to expand
her vocabulary and I sat with her to explain them.
I was shocked and
scandalized
at the grotesque errors, the lexical mangling in my new books.
(I know that u will say that
undoubtedly
I was the ignorant one, and thay were right.)
My point is that to err is human,
including lexicografers.
Thay can screw up and thay
DO, too ofen.
To me, it was obvious that thay got some
lazy college students at minimum wage
to pump out words, with no oversight.
The way to ascertain what is right
is to invest the time in research,
including the etymological evolution of the word,
deconstructing it, to see how it functions;
to understand the underlying
LOGIC of the word.
Your lexicografer is deferring to POPULARITY of use.
In that sense (erroneous as it may be) forums
IS indeed the first usage; the lexicografer
subordinates the factual history of the word,
its etymological source, that it is
NOT
an English word, but it is
LATIN
and, therefore, subject to the rules of Latin.
Because it is a Latin word, I respect and apply the Latin rules.
Thank u for joining me in that.
David