@maxdancona,
maxdancona wrote:
I am a 40 something software professional. I also have been out of work for a few months. A perspective employer just sent me a form to sign to consent to urine testing for drugs.
My first reaction was "hell with that!"
My second reaction was "I do need a job soon."
My third reaction was "I will have to be awfully hungry to submit to this absurdity".
In case you are wondering, I am not a drug user. But this is none of anyone's business. I think I am going to cancel the interview (there are some other things that make me suspect this company is a bureaucratic nightmare).
What do you think. How hungry would you have to be before you signed such a form?
I did it for years... How smart do you have to be to pass a urine test... No study required; and open book...
Here is my thought... In my trade, ironwork, on the job accidents account for much of the cost without putting a cent in anyone's pocket, and idiots and barcodes and stone heads are responsible for much of it... I loved the jobs which tested because there people were usually required to use safety equipment, and since I did, and others often did not, it sort of leveled the playing field for me... Ultimately, it came down to supporting my family, and I figured I could burn one later, but now that I can, I would rather keep what is left of my tattered lungs for running... I know it is a bugger that employers want so much of the hand they hire to show up for work... My family life suffered because my bosses always expected 100% and I tried to give it to them...
We all want to escape reality... There is something about reality that makes everyone want to run and hide or find some sort of protection from it, some guaze of impossibility to make it seem unreal, and us, real... The problem is, that when we escape reality it never gets one bit better while we are away... The rich guy only makes it worse seeking his escape in wealth... The middle man only spreads more misery seeking his escape in sex... And the poor only drive the stake of torture deeper into their hearts with every drink or smoke they take.., We all need a vacation from it; but the ideal thing is to deal with it, and make reality more human friendly, and we are far from that...
Is the support of your family essential to your self respect??? Go pee in a cup, and take the first step in changing your world... Now you realize you are a slave, and a prisoner, and your challenge, if you choose to accept, will be to keep your humanity and self respect, to resist THEM, and not make the world worse for humanity because you are treated inhumanely...
You have to realize that there is little left of the traditional employer/ employee relationship... We used to have rights... We used to make our agreements person to person... We used to know, and care about each other... Now it is this wage for that work; no promise that it will be there tomorrow... No more guarantee of health, or safety, or sanity than the law allows... It is week to week, punch your card, put in your time, make up your mind to deal with your own insecurity... The man owes you nothing, but he pays your for something that in the end is worth nothing at all... Its your life... Beats chasing game all over the geography without any hope of a meal at the end of it... But not by much