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Hey, Can A Woman "Ask To Get Raped"?

 
 
BillRM
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 08:49 am
@firefly,
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Are you quite sure that the police can just pick men at random and ask them to "donate DNA samples"? If the police rang your doorbell and, out of the blue, asked for DNA would you give it to them? Wouldn't they have to already be investigating you for a crime and have some evidence that lead them to you as a suspect?


Police can ask but they can not force and I remember reading of a case in the UK where every male in a very small town from 16 and up was ask for DNA samples.

I would not likely give it to them but that is not the subject.

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If they already had his DNA in the data base, why would they need another sample from him? Wouldn't the police be trying to match the DNA sample on the woman's sheet, or clothing, or in the woman's body, with a particular man's DNA. If this man's DNA was already in the database, they wouldn't need to ask him to give another sample. Either the DNA they already had as rape evidence would match what was in the database or it wouldn't. Your version of events doesn't make any sense.


First perhaps you are getting confuse as there was two case of rapes that have no connections years apart the first was of his then girlfriend where his DNA enter a national datebase by error. The second was a serial of rapes that cause them to ask him for a DNA sample that he provided and they did not just check to see if his DNA match the current case they ran it again the full database going back years and got the hit due to his girlfriend rape.

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So, how did his DNA get on her sheet?


It was his girlfriend at the time and it got on her sheet the normal way a man dna get on his girlfriend sheets.

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Your point seems to be that the police are idiots.


In that case they was idiots as I said they should had pull the arrest report before breaking his door base on a DNA hit.

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The law defines the crime of rape. Rape does not require "force or the threat of force or drugging behind the woman back to have sex with her". The essential element in rape is that the sex was without consent, and the woman can indicate that with a "No".


The law is not the same in all states and I can only speak for the current Florida law that her being under the influence of alcohol by her own will does not allow her to claimed rape after granting consent under the influence of alcohol or drugs that she had taken of her own free will.

Many posters here seem to think that what the laws are or should be and I strongly disagree to put it mildly. Once more it is not the law in Florida at least.

Second no matter what any law is or is not no woman should be allow to withdraw consent after the fact and any law that does so is an outrage and if on a jury I would not find anyone guilty under such nonsense.

Calling something rape even in the law books does not make it rape in a moral sense of that word.



firefly
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 08:55 am
@Intrepid,
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Anyone with nothing to hide would have no problem giving a sample and ensuring that their good name is kept in tact.


I agree. But, sometimes, people, even those who are innocent, might be hestiant to give DNA samples for other reasons. They should understand their legal rights and what will be done with the samples.

http://docs.google.com/viewer?a=v&q=cache:dl406CUHdVIJ:www.councilforresponsiblegenetics.org/pageDocuments/I6W7Q3D7RM.pdf+can+the+police+request+DNA+samples+from+any+citizen%3F&hl=en&gl=us&pid=bl&srcid=ADGEESgjbPd33QpWeW4yX3b3WlZMdZQevLWuSpIr3U2jg4qWTIhtMH-QoirE8Xh6VYWN1k_voj-E9kOMMmrwEsD4JHinZPZUQ04BymlqQxej02nmpkdGtoaUdbTp5kTiNU1OzNl0MTuf&sig=AHIEtbQYFTk_SH1lQ4GljrmUGowQABBMQg
Intrepid
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 08:55 am
@BillRM,
First-Degree Felony Factors

Florida rape laws stipulate that sexual battery or rape is considered to be a first-degree felony under certain circumstances. These factors may include when the victim is physically unable to resist, if the offender threatens the victim with force or violence, if prior to the sexual battery or rape the offender administers a narcotic or other substance that incapacitates the victim, or if the victim is considered to be “mentally incapacitated,” under Florida law.
Intrepid
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 08:56 am
@firefly,
Yes, I agree they should be educated on what will be done with the samples. I didn't go into specifics....perhaps I should have.
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BillRM
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 09:00 am
@firefly,
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That is agreed. And, therefore, women who feel the sex was freely consenting won't feel they were raped, correct?


That does not always follow in real life as once more I refer you to the case of the West Pointer who was sleeping by himself in bed when a young woman climb in and begin a sexual encounter.

Regretting losing her maid head in such a manner on her 20 birthday she file rape charges that ended up with him going though a court marshal as she claimed she was too drunk to grant consent at the time.

No man freedom should depend on the whim of any woman he had sleep with.


firefly
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 09:00 am
@Intrepid,
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if the offender threatens the victim with force or violence, if prior to the sexual battery or rape the offender administers a narcotic or other substance that incapacitates the victim, or if the victim is considered to be “mentally incapacitated,”


This is still yet another example of BillRM's inability to understand the law, even the laws of his own state. Ignorance of the law is no excuse for rape.

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The 2009 Florida Statutes

Title XLVI
CRIMES Chapter 794
SEXUAL BATTERY

794.011 Sexual battery.--

(1) As used in this chapter:

(a) "Consent" means intelligent, knowing, and voluntary consent and does not include coerced submission. "Consent" shall not be deemed or construed to mean the failure by the alleged victim to offer physical resistance to the offender.

She must be alert, and fully able to understand what she is doing, and able to make "intelligent" decisions. Her consciousness cannot be clouded, or impaired, by alcohol or drugs, even if she voluntarily ingested those substances.

This can also apply to an intoxicated victim:

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"Physically helpless" means unconscious, asleep, or for any other reason physically unable to communicate unwillingness to an act


Any person who falsely accuses any person listed in paragraph (4)(g) or other person in a position of control or authority as an agent or employee of government of violating paragraph (4)(g) is guilty of a felony of the third degree, punishable as provided in s. 775.082, s. 775.083, or s. 775.084.
http://www.leg.state.fl.us/statutes/index.cfm?App_mode=Display_Statute&URL=Ch0794/SEC011.HTM

So why do you keep saying false accusations go unpunished?

firefly
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 09:02 am
@BillRM,
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that ended up with him going though a court marshal as she claimed she was too drunk to grant consent at the time.


Was he convicted of rape?
BillRM
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 09:10 am
@firefly,
Sorry Inrepid are leaving out the full law that clearly state that the mentally incapacitated can not be the result of her own actions.

I posted the the whole section already on this thread and I am not going to do so once more because Intrepid is an idiot that I had block already.
Intrepid
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 09:14 am
@BillRM,
Why do you continue to bring this up? That was 13 years ago and he was aquitted.

West Point cadet cleared of rape

January 24, 1997
Web posted at: 8:35 p.m. EST

WEST POINT, New York (CNN) -- A military jury acquitted a senior at the U.S. Military Academy at West Point Friday evening of raping a 20-year-old female cadet.

Jurors had deliberated Friday afternoon before returning their verdict for James Engelbrecht, 22, of Conroe, Texas.

Engelbrecht claimed the woman climbed into the top bunk of the bed where he was sleeping during a party May 24 at a New Jersey home and that she initiated consensual sex.

Prosecutors alleged the female cadet was too drunk to give consent, but Engelbrecht claimed he didn't know she had been drinking heavily because he went to bed early.

This was the first court martial trial at West Point since 1990. If he had been convicted, Engelbrecht faced life in prison, dismissal from the Army and loss of all pay and benefits.

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BillRM
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 09:14 am
@firefly,
No, he was not found guilt but it sure did not aid his military career any and her whim/regret put him though a full blown court marshal for no good reason.

Intrepid
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 09:17 am
@BillRM,
BillRM wrote:

Sorry Inrepid are leaving out the full law that clearly state that the mentally incapacitated can not be the result of her own actions.

I posted the the whole section already on this thread and I am not going to do so once more because Intrepid is an idiot that I had block already.


You have no proof that I am an idiot. Just as you have no proof of your silly allegations of rape convictions that never happened or the laws in your own state.

You are a buffoon who cannot be taken seriously. The reason you have me on ignore is that you have never, to my knowledge, ever been able to refute anything I have said.

P.S.
Who is Inrepid?
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firefly
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 09:20 am
@BillRM,
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No, he was not found guilt but it sure did not aid his military career any and her whim/regret put him though a full blown court marshal for no good reason


What makes you think she accused him on a "whim"? If that is correct, then the army put him through a court martial on a "whim". Obviously they thought her case had merit, otherwise they wouldn't have held a trial.

He wasn't convicted, stop bringing this case up.
Intrepid
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 09:21 am
@firefly,
There have been several rape cases at West Point. I didn't realize how many until I looked it up.

I also didn't realize that it is illegal for cadets to be in a locked room, lying together prostrate or having sex on West Point property.
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firefly
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 09:26 am
@BillRM,
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Sorry Inrepid are leaving out the full law that clearly state that the mentally incapacitated can not be the result of her own actions.


Go back to my post above about the Florida laws. Her intoxicated state would affect her ability to give "intelligent, knowing, voluntary consent".

Alcohol affects cognitive abilities--reasoning, judgement, awareness, etc.--that's why people can't drink and drive. Everyone knows alcohol affects such abilities.
And it would certainly affect the issue of consent.
firefly
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 09:37 am
@BillRM,
Can we discuss the broad issues involved with this, and not get bogged down in the same few cases, mostly irrelevant, that you keep bringing up over and over again.
A handful of cases, one way or the other, proves nothing.

Regarding sex with an intoxicated woman, I repeat....

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But, if she says, "No", and he ignores that, and thrusts his penis into her anyway, that is rape, correct? If he was drinking too, what can he claim--that he was too drunk to realize she was saying,"No"? He's responsible for making sure she did give consent, and not ignoring signs, any signs, that she is unwilling. His being drunk does not get him off the hook. He is responsible for his behavior, whether he is drunk or sober. If drinking impairs his judgment, and he misreads, or ignores, her signals and her communications, that's his responsibility, it is not an excuse, or a defense, against rape. He's got to be absolutely sure she's willing--freely willing--to engage in the act.

Some women are too drunk to be able to give legal consent. The man may not care about that. In fact, in a date rape, the man may want the woman drunk so she offers no resistance. Generally, these men have been with the woman when she was drinking, so they know how much alcohol she has consumed, and they know she is legally intoxicated, just as they know, or should know, how much alcohol they can legally drink before driving.
Or, if they just suddenly happen to come upon an already intoxicated woman, they are expected to be able to know just how drunk she is. The fact she can walk and talk isn't enough to indicate she isn't legally impaired. Can she carry on an extended rational conversation? Does she slur her words? Have any balance problems? Are you saying men are too dumb to know when a women is intoxicated?

Isn't the real problem that some men just don't care. They are more than willing to "take advantage of" a woman in that condition. They are sexual opportunists. They don't consider themselves rapists, but the law doesn't see it that way. They are rapists. Having sex with an intoxicated woman is like having sex with a women who is mentally impaired, cognitively impaired, or disabled, and those groups of women can not legally give consent either. If men want to disregard the law, they should be ready and willing to accept the consequences. And that may include a rape charge.

It is the man who claims the sex was with her consent. Are you so naive you don't believe men lie about that? And don't you think they lie about that far, far, far more often than women make false rape accusations?


She can't be too drunk to be able to legally give consent.




BillRM
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 09:44 am
@firefly,
Sorry under common-law and most current state statues you are not allow to place yourself under the voluntarily influences of drugs and or alcohol and then used that fact as a defense for your actions including the granting of consent for sexual intercourse.

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BillRM
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 10:05 am
@firefly,
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Can we discuss the broad issues involved with this, and not get bogged down in the same few cases, mostly irrelevant, that you keep bringing up over and over again.A handful of cases, one way or the other, proves nothing.


You wish to make broad claims that happen not to be correct and pointing out that fact by posting real cases does indeed tend to prove that your claims are in error.

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They don't consider themselves rapists, but the law doesn't see it that way. They are rapists


That is your opinions what the law is or is not and unless you wish to claimed a law degree it carry no more weight then my opinions.

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She can't be too drunk to be able to legally give consent
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If she is completely unaware of her surroundings you might have a point but if she can talk and walk etc you do not have a point, as you cannot in fairness and legally place the burden on a man with not training to decide the issue of her fitness to grant consent then second guess the matter hours or days later.

Now if you wish to set up 24 hours testing stations where a man can take his date to be screen by an expert on her ability to grant consent or some other such silliness you might be able to get away with it.

Somehow, I do not think that program is likely to happen.



Intrepid
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 10:09 am
@BillRM,
Poor Billy. He seems to think that every date must end up with sex. Don't people just talk anymore? Shocked
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BillRM
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 10:27 am
@firefly,
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What makes you think she accused him on a "whim"? If that is correct, then the army put him through a court martial on a "whim". Obviously they thought her case had merit, otherwise they wouldn't have held a trial.

He wasn't convicted, stop bringing this case up.


The army actions in this case is indeed shameful but for her complain it would not have happen so she bares the primary responsibility not the army.

At the time frame women at West Point was fairly new and Congress and the newspapers was looking over the shoulders of the military decisions makers so instead of using commonsense they put the young man though hell to cover their asses.

This is the world you seem to wish to open wide where any woman can grant consent to sex and even in this West Point case awaked a sleeping man and start a sexual encounter and later put him though hell by claiming that her willing drinking had void her consent.

In addition, I can see why you do not care for my referring to this real life case of the misused of the legal system concerning sexual assaults.

Too bad.

Intrepid
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2010 10:42 am
@BillRM,
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Billy wrote:
At the time frame women at West Point was fairly new and Congress and the newspapers was looking over the shoulders of the military decisions makers so instead of using commonsense they put the young man though hell to cover their asses.


By your own admission, this was in 1997. Why, then, do you continue to bring it up as if it happened yesterday. And, as if he was convicted rather than being found not guilty?

Do you have anything intelligent and pertinent to bring?
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