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Hey, Can A Woman "Ask To Get Raped"?

 
 
aidan
 
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Reply Tue 4 Jan, 2011 11:22 pm
Well I have to say that I found the piece Bill posted where the woman apologetically refuses to hire the male babysitter for her child, simply because he is a male, even though he was the best candidate in all other respects (to her mind), very troubling.

If the child said something like, 'Mommy - I would rather have a girl babysitter- someone who is more like you,' that would be more understandable. But to make the leap in her own thoughts that just because someone was male and interacting with a small child, they'd be more interested in the aesthetics of helping her wipe her butt other than just making sure she got herself clean, is rather sick.

Pedophilia is an ILLNESS (in my opinion) or an aberration. What percentage of fathers ENJOY or get any sort of sexual pleasure or thrill from wiping their daughter's butts?

As someone who's been a daughter, sister, wife, mother of a son - I find that article extremely insulting and demeaning to men.

When my children were young and needed babysitters I hired males and females and both my children enjoyed having the males babysit more because they were more active with the kids - playing and roughhousing outside instead of having to sit inside and watch tv while the girl talked on the phone.
It never crossed my mind that because the person was a male he'd be more interested in their genitals. They were males- not sick people - I did have to teach one boy how to change my daughter's diaper. But I never got the sense that he took pleasure in it. Jesus!

On the other hand, my neighbor hired a neighborhood girl who lost it and bit her infant son's penis. I'm not kidding. Out of the blue...the girl was only fourteen but banned from babysitting ever again. So you can never know.

I found that article absolutely ridiculous.
BillRM
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jan, 2011 01:55 am
@aidan,
Aidan how about making all adult men move on airliners away from children under the theory if seated next to a child they are likely to abused that child on an airliner of all things?

This show massive distrust of all men beyond any sane reason.

I just can see the likelihood of even a rare pedophilia deciding that surrounded by a few hundreds other adults and lock into a metal tube 6 miles about the ground would be a wonderful place to try to sexually molest a child that he did not know.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jan, 2011 03:14 am
@BillRM,
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Aidan how about making all adult men move on airliners away from children under the theory if seated next to a child they are likely to abused that child on an airliner of all things?

This show massive distrust of all men beyond any sane reason.

first on my list for problems with the state distrusting the citizens is the DNA banking, where DNA is taken from citizens at the highest rate that can be gotten by the citizens in the obvious hope that some say the state will have a DNA record of all citizens. This is in my opinion a clear violation of the search and seizure terms of the Constitution. I think that the only justified banking of DNA is for those convicted of sex crimes, but our current policy is everyone who is arrested must be DNA banked. There was in 07 a push to grab the DNA from all citizens at birth.

The feminist are of course all for this state surveillance of our DNA, as they want to be able to match up dna taken in rape kits to the guys who had sex with the women who claim to be victims. Sure, most of the time the women know darn well who had sex with them but having all guys dna on file helps the case along, and I am guessing that proving that the guys she claimed had sex with her is supposed to get the police to take seriously her cliam that the guy raped her, despite the lack of logic hope in despite what the radical feminist say sex between a man and a woman is not necessarily rape..

Right now we grab dna from all those arrested, which is a massive increase from where we were 5 years ago and is out of line with global norms. Canada for instance takes from all those CONVICTED of certain crimes.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jan, 2011 04:18 am
@hawkeye10,
By Rick Weiss
Washington Post Staff Writer
Saturday, June 3, 2006
Quote:

Brimming with the genetic patterns of more than 3 million Americans, the nation's databank of DNA "fingerprints" is growing by more than 80,000 people every month, giving police an unprecedented crime-fighting tool but prompting warnings that the expansion threatens constitutional privacy protections.

With little public debate, state and federal rules for cataloging DNA have broadened in recent years to include not only violent felons, as was originally the case, but also perpetrators of minor crimes and even people who have been arrested but not convicted.

Now some in law enforcement are calling for a national registry of every American's DNA profile, against which police could instantly compare crime-scene specimens. Advocates say the system would dissuade many would-be criminals and help capture the rest.

"This is the single best way to catch bad guys and keep them off the street," said Chris Asplen, a lawyer with the Washington firm Smith Alling Lane and former executive director of the National Commission on the Future of DNA Evidence. "When it's applied to everybody, it is fair, and frankly you wouldn't even know it was going on."

But opponents say that the growing use of DNA scans is making suspects out of many law-abiding Americans and turning the "innocent until proven guilty" maxim on its head.

"These databases are starting to look more like a surveillance tool than a tool for criminal investigation," said Tania Simoncelli of the American Civil Liberties Union in New York
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2006/06/02/AR2006060201648.html

We gave up "innocent until proven guilty" when we changed sex law and made it conform to feminist theory. We are not likely to get it back.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jan, 2011 04:43 am
@hawkeye10,
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The National DNA Index (NDIS) contains over 9,110,007 offender profiles and 346,613 forensic profiles as of November 2010.
http://www.fbi.gov/about-us/lab/codis/ndis-statistics

3 million citizens in 2006 to over 9 million now....growing nicely. I think we just passed a federal law to force the states to add more...we talked about this long ago in this thread. There are about 14 million arrests per year and if I am not mistaken all DNA obtained in dragnets ("please give us your DNA so that we can prove that you did not do this crime") can now also be added.....the numbers should really start to pop now.
BillRM
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jan, 2011 07:24 am
@hawkeye10,
Hawkeye you can multiply the numbers of citizens in the data bank by a factor of ten or more as it is now possible to check if someone not in the bank happen to be in a close family relationship with someone who is.

Second, how long do you think that it will be before the military DNA bank is merge into the law enforcement one?

Third, this information can or will be able in the future to be used for many other purposes then just IDing someone such as predicting your likely future health and likely lifespan.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jan, 2011 07:34 am
@BillRM,
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Hawkeye you can multiply the numbers of citizens in the data bank by a factor of ten or more as it is now possible to check if someone not in the bank happen to be in a close family relationship with someone who is.

they already do this, when they find a close match they dig through that persons family trying to find the perp.

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Second, how long do you think that it will be before the military DNA bank is merge into the law enforcement one
they now add all those who have recieved a court martial...we see if they add everyone eventually...I assume they will

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Third, this information can or will be able in the future to be used for many other purposes then just IDing someone such as predicting your likely future health and likely lifespan
our government is not in the habit of letting available info slip by, the state is very good at data mining in part because they have had so much practice. They will let all that information sit in CODIS unused?? Fat chance...
BillRM
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jan, 2011 07:44 am
@hawkeye10,
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our government is not in the habit of letting available info slip by, the state is very good at data mining in part because they have had so much practice.


What is that kind of information is likely to be worth on the open market therefore how likely is it that some lowly federal employee will sooner or later sell the database to others outside of the government?

Wikileaks and the cables leaks show how well the government tend to protect such databases.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jan, 2011 08:21 am
@BillRM,
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What is that kind of information is likely to be worth on the open market therefore how likely is it that some lowly federal employee will sooner or later sell the database to others outside of the government?

considering that the names are not with the records and that the name is only provided from the agency that supplied the sample once another agency requests it and says why they want it IDK how much of a threat private use of the data is. I also dont know if more than the 13 markers used in the matching process are kept in the database for possible future use, as the 13 markers alone have limited use though some might indicate disease. I am betting that a lot more than the 13 markers are on government computers and will not be deleted,and will at some point be used. We all remember how the state claimed that the body scanners used by TSA would not hold pics or transmit pics, till somebody got smart and looked at the purchasing contract and noticed that by golly they do.

Quote:

For the last few years, federal agencies have defended body scanning by insisting that all images will be discarded as soon as they're viewed. The Transportation Security Administration claimed last summer, for instance, that "scanned images cannot be stored or recorded."

Now it turns out that some police agencies are storing the controversial images after all. The U.S. Marshals Service admitted this week that it had surreptitiously saved tens of thousands of images recorded with a millimeter wave system at the security checkpoint of a single Florida courthouse.

This follows an earlier disclosure (PDF) by the TSA that it requires all airport body scanners it purchases to be able to store and transmit images for "testing, training, and evaluation purposes." The agency says, however, that those capabilities are not normally activated when the devices are installed at airports.



Read more: http://news.cnet.com/8301-31921_3-20012583-281.html#ixzz1AAdDDwVW
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firefly
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jan, 2011 08:25 am
@BillRM,
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This show massive distrust of all men beyond any sane reason.


Sort of the way you distrust all Muslims, including American Muslims, "beyond any sane reason".

Sort of the way you distrust all "feminists", and label them "man haters, "beyond any sane reason".

Sort of the way you distrust all women, and even children, who report they have been raped, "beyond any sane reason".

Your views are an excellent example of the harm and distorted thinking that follows from stereotyping large groups of people. You overgeneralize and stereotype constantly, usually to negatively characterize an entire group.

So, why does it even bother you when others do exactly the same sort of thing you do?
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jan, 2011 08:32 am
@firefly,
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So, why does it even bother you when others do exactly the same sort of thing you do?
my God you are slipping......you know darn well that even if you are completely right that Bill is acting wrong this does not excuse you acting wrong. I was taught "two wrongs dont make a right" by the time I was 4yo, and you must have learned this at some point.
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BillRM
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jan, 2011 08:47 am
@firefly,
Hmm nice try but given that mosques have been used as a staging area for terrorists attacks in NYC any numbers of time in the last decades questioning the wisdom of adding another large mosque in the heart of NYC is saying nothing other then Mosques are a proven danger point.

Such concerns have nothing at all to do with all Muslims............. or distrusting all Muslims.

Just as studies had shown that a very large percents of women had in the past had falsely charge men with rape means that there is a strong duty not to assume that such charges are valid or harming men by releasing names without investigating first.

It would be nice in fact if you also do not ruin innocent young men lives by releasing such charges until someone is proven guilty. Being assumed innocent until proven guilty mean that the young men should be provided the same protection as their accusers are.

As the young men just found out in the Bahamas, first they arrest you and then they ask questions following the express wishes of the US government in the matter.

No matter if the young women would now confess that they was not assaulted in any manner to the end of the men life anyone doing a Google search on these guys will come up with the fact that at one point they was charge with this crime.



firefly
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jan, 2011 08:53 am
@hawkeye10,
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our current policy is everyone who is arrested must be DNA banked.

Quote:

Right now we grab dna from all those arrested,

We do? Are you quite sure about that? We currently take, and data bank, DNA samples from everyone who is arrested, no matter what crime they are arrested for? This wouldn't be another one of your paranoid delusions, would it?

Exactly which states take DNA samples, and data bank them, from "all those arrested"--presumably for any crime, since you say "everyone"--even though they have not yet been convicted? Name specific states. Or are you saying this goes on in all 50 states? You do seem to be saying that this goes on in all 50 states.

Come on, Hawkeye. Prove this statement this isn't another one of your paranoid delusions or flat out lies.
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our current policy is everyone who is arrested must be DNA banked


firefly
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jan, 2011 09:09 am
@BillRM,
So, you believe all Muslims who attend mosques in the United States, and particularly in NYC, might be planning terrorist attacks? And, you feel, that justifies your view that no new mosques should be built in NYC.

Sort of the way that other people feel that, since most pedophiles are men, they don't want to hire any male babysitters, or have any unaccompanied males near children in public places?

Sort of the way you distrust all "feminists", and label them "man haters, "beyond any sane reason".

Sort of the way you distrust all women, and even children, who report they have been raped, "beyond any sane reason".

Your views are an excellent example of the harm and distorted thinking that comes from overgeneralizing and negatively characterizing entire large groups of people.

If you think stereotyping is wrong, then why do you do it--constantly?
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jan, 2011 09:20 am
@firefly,
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Come on, Hawkeye. Prove this statement this isn't another one of your paranoid delusions or flat out lies.

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I am not in the habbit of proving my statements unless challanged with documentation. I will however point out that while most judges have allowed this unconstitutional practice there is at least one who has not, and SCOTUS has not ruled yet

Quote:

Monday, November 01, 2010
By Shannon P. Duffy, The Legal Intelligencer
When a federal judge in Pittsburgh ruled that prosecutors cannot, without a warrant, routinely collect DNA samples from arrestees for inclusion in a national database, he sparked an appeal now set to be argued before all 14 judges on the 3rd U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals.

At issue in United States v. Mitchell is one of the most important privacy rights issues facing the courts: whether routine DNA sampling should be considered no different from fingerprinting or photographing, or whether the government ought to be required to get a warrant, or wait for a conviction, before taking a genetic sample.

The Justice Department's appeal in Mitchell was initially argued before a three-judge panel in April. But the court has taken the rare step of slating the case for en banc re-argument without releasing a decision from the three judges.

In November 2009, U.S. District Judge David S. Cercone of the Western District of Pennsylvania ruled against the government, and held that DNA sampling of arrestees violates the Fourth Amendment.

Defendant Ruben Mitchell, indicted in March 2009, had been charged with possession with intent to distribute cocaine. Mr. Mitchell, of California, lost track of more than 41 pounds of cocaine, which was stored in his luggage but lost on a Southwest Airlines flight to Pittsburgh. At his first court appearance, Mr. Mitchell objected to the collection of his DNA pre-conviction, and U.S. Magistrate Judge Lisa Pupo Lenihan issued an order blocking the collection until a decision by the district court.

In the federal case, prosecutors argued that Congress authorized such DNA sampling of arrestees, and that it serves the compelling government interest of identifying a suspect more accurately than fingerprints or photographs can.

But Judge Cercone reasoned that DNA testing goes too far because a genetic sample can reveal much more than a suspect's identity. Although arrestees have a "diminished expectation of privacy," Judge Cercone concluded that the practice of routinely obtaining genetic samples from all arrestees must be struck down as unconstitutional.

Courts, including the 3rd Circuit, have already held that those convicted of certain crimes may be subjected to DNA sampling, but Judge Cercone said that he found "no compelling reason to unduly burden a legitimate expectation of privacy and extend these warrantless, suspicionless searches to those members of society who have not been convicted, are presumed innocent, but have been arrested and are awaiting proper trial." Instead, he concluded that Mr. Mitchell had "the highest expectation of privacy" in his genetic code, and that this was not outweighed by any governmental interest in collecting the information.

On appeal, Assistant U.S. Attorney Laura Schleich Irwin argued that Judge Cercone's ruling should be reversed because his analysis "relied largely on the notion that the presumption of innocence alters the Fourth Amendment calculus and gives arrestees and pretrial detainees greater privacy rights in their identifying information than those convicted of a crime."

That logic, Ms. Irwin argued, "is flatly inconsistent with decisions holding that the presumption is a trial right and has no bearing on an assessment of privacy interests for Fourth Amendment purposes." She also argued that the judge's concerns about DNA's broader privacy issues were a "red herring" because Congress included safeguards in the law to prevent any use beyond identification.

But Assistant Federal Public Defender Elisa A. Long urged the appellate court to uphold the ruling, arguing in her brief that the government cannot "forcibly extract" a DNA sample from her client based solely on his status as an arrestee and pretrial detainee, without a warrant and without reasonable suspicion to believe that it will produce evidence of a crime.

In April, Ms. Irwin and Ms. Long argued the appeal before 3rd Circuit Judges Marjorie O. Rendell and Julio M. Fuentes and U.S. District Judge Robert B. Kugler of the District of New Jersey, sitting on the 3rd Circuit by invitation.

Ms. Irwin faced a barrage of questions from Judges Rendell and Fuentes on the issue of whether DNA testing is more intrusive than fingerprinting



Read more: http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/10305/1099036-499.stm#ixzz1AArmMEVX
BillRM
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jan, 2011 09:20 am
@firefly,
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So, you believe all Muslims who attend mosques in the United States, and particularly in NYC, might be planning terrorist attacks? And, you feel, that justifies your view that no new mosques should be built in NYC.


You are being dishonest and in a very stupid manner.

Where did I say all or most or a large percent of Muslims are terrorists in or out of Mosques?

Once more my statements is that Mosques had been used as a cover and as support for terrorists many times in the NYC area and due to that fact are a matter of concern.

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Sort of the way you distrust all women, and even children, who report they have been raped, "beyond any sane reason".


Would you like me to post for the hundred time or so the studies links giving the false reporting rate for rapes as between 25 to 50 percent of all reports concerning non-strangers rapes?

Such studies are more then enough sane reason to not give instant credit to such rapes reports.
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firefly
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jan, 2011 10:03 am
@hawkeye10,
With regard to Phyllis Schlafly, you said...
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There are a lot of things that I don't agree with her on but that does not mean that she is wrong about everything.


Hawkeye, your posting that Phyllis Schlafly as an example of someone who agrees with you, about the dangers of feminist influence on sexual assault laws, as a way of proving you are not a lone deluded paranoid, was so absurd it actually proves how crazy, and out of touch with reality, you really are.

What exactly do you agree with Schlafly about?

Her main beef with feminists is that she wants traditional gender roles maintained--men should be the breadwinners, women should take care of the home and children.

But, isn't your wife supporting you? Aren't you at home--posting online, playing video games, viewing pornography, or doing whatever it is you do--while she brings in the money?

Schlafly would not agree with that.

Schlafly does not believe in sex education in schools.

Schlafly does not believe in condom use to prevent the spread of STD's.

Schlafly does not think people should engage in premarital sex.

Schlafly thinks pornography should be suppressed and regulated. In fact, she's angry at feminists for not making this a bigger cause.

Schlafly does not believe in extramarital sex.

And, it goes without saying, Schlafly would not be in favor of a BDSM lifestyle.

So, where do you and Phyllis Schlafly have this great meeting of the minds?

You were so desperate to find an "anti-feminist" that you grabbed (or groped Smile)
one who really doesn't agree with you about anything. Laughing

And, you did this to prove you're not a lone deluded paranoid about the feminist conspiracy to control the "sex laws" and thereby gain power over men????

Sorry, if the tin foil hat fits, wear it. You can't write a post without referring to your phantom conspiratorial "FEMINISTS"--despite your inability to actually name any of them.

HAWKEYE IS STILL WHINING
http://feminocracy.files.wordpress.com/2008/11/feminist.jpg?w=388&h=288

For Hawkeye, "FEMINISTS" are mythological beings, and quite elusive, since he doesn't seem able to actually name any. He just knows they are there--just the way every paranoid conspiracy theorist knows "they" are there. Laughing

He looks kinda cute in his tin foil hat. Hope it protects him from the "feminist conspiracy". Laughing
http://mrbesilly.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341bfa6953ef01157162c8e6970c-500wi



hawkeye10
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jan, 2011 10:11 am
@firefly,
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What exactly do you agree with Schlafly about?

Opposing the unjustified assault on civil liberties driven by the feminists. I think we also agree that men and women are not the same and that we should not pretend that we are the same. I am a great proponent of the masculine feminine dance and have no interest in the trying to rub out the differences.
firefly
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jan, 2011 10:21 am
@hawkeye10,
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I am not in the habbit of proving my statements unless challanged with documentation

All right.
You said everyone who is arrested in the U.S., even though not convicted of a crime, has DNA collected and data banked. That means EVERYONE--IN ALL 50 STATES--ARRESTED FOR ANY CRIME.

NO STATE COLLECTS DNA ON EVERYONE WHO IS ARRESTED. YOU ARE A DELUDED PARANOID. OR A FLAT OUT LIAR. TAKE YOUR PICK.

Your posts should carry this warning...Laughing
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_2k22z8vH128/TQ7nwsjeWiI/AAAAAAAAH_I/MdHXStyOh_g/s1600/TinFoilHatArea.jpg



firefly
 
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Reply Wed 5 Jan, 2011 10:35 am
@hawkeye10,
I asked you...
What exactly do you agree with Schlafly about?

and you replied...
Quote:
Opposing the unjustified assault on civil liberties driven by the feminists.


Really? You think that's what Schlafly believes? Laughing Isn't Schlafly the one who wants to take away your pornography?

You have enough egg on your face right now to make omlettes for all of A2K. Laughing
http://s3.amazonaws.com/readers/2009/07/22/eggonface_1.jpg


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