@spidergal,
Quote:You're going to have to tell us where you're getting the stuff about women enjoying the act of rape and teens fantasizing about it from?
Your paraphrasing is distorting my whole point.
There are differing degrees of rape. There are differing women. When women fantasise about rape it is not rape in their minds. It is a dominating man who takes away the complicated choice of whether to have sex or not. How many women wake up at some stage of a relationship (perhaps the next day even) and think bloody hell what am I doing with him? Later in life they feel like whores for having slept with too many men. That feeling of repulsion can be equated to feeling raped....something that shouldnt have happened, something that left them feeling angry and victimised.
Sexual instincts such as humans have are VERY similar in most higher mammals. Most troops of apes, chimpanzees and monkeys have the female approach the alpha male by bending over and offering him a sniff. Out of politeness, he accepts but if she is too far down the social ladder or he just had one, he will look away and ignore her. She will then approach the number two male and so on until she is satisifed. Rape does occur in these societies, but it is usually the female asking to be raped instead of a bashing. When threatened with larger male violence she will bend over hoping to distract him....he may feel pacified and walk away....he might have sex...or he might continue the bashing and she will have to run for it. The length of time involved in raising a human baby prevents human females from having this logical attitude to rape.
As for references, I can not present such to people when it may disturb them to think what I say is absolutely true. Whilst this is not the case with professionals, some normal people stumble into these threads and read them. Your library will have some sex studies, some are rather dated and some are suspect for various reasons in certain areas, but you need to read some general books on the psychology of sex before reading any studies. Sorry, but it really is dangerous to mess around with someone's mind unless you know the full result. I dont know who is reading this, and this way they can still say bullshit he's wrong, rather than be hurt by too much information about themselves.
Quote:Prove your deftness in female sexuality, please?
You dont want to know how many women I have had but I will drop a hint.....some female students I was involved with from courses I was not involved in thought highly of my appearance, calling me "The Face". But that was 15 years ago. I am a lot uglier now. So I have some practical experience. I will not discuss any professional qualifications I may or may not have.
