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Hey, Can A Woman "Ask To Get Raped"?

 
 
firefly
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 11:21 am
It is very appropriate to recognize the bravery that is displayed by a rape victim in helping to put her rapist behind bars. One can only hope that this conviction will help her to move forward with her own life.

Quote:
Rapist jailed as victim earns praise for bravery in giving evidence
October 30, 2010

Justice has caught up with a rapist from Somerset who has been jailed for 17 years thanks to the bravery of his victim who endured years of abuse.

The victim, from East Devon, says she has suffered a "life sentence" because of James Bird's crimes but now has hope for the future, following his conviction and prison sentence at Exeter Crown Court this week.

Detective Constable Dawn Perriam, officer in the case praised the girl's bravery in giving evidence about her ordeal decades later.

Bird knew the girl, from Honiton, and began abusing her when he had reason to be alone with her.

His crimes began when she was less than ten years old, in the 1980s, and continued for several years including repeated rapes. He made threats to the girl including warning her that nobody would believe her if she tried to seek help.

Jurors found him guilty of four rapes and two indecent assaults, at the court on Thursday following his trial.

Bird, of Churchinford, in Taunton, Somerset, had already pleaded guilty to six indecent assaults. He stared ahead without expression as he was sentenced.

The judge, Mr Justice Jack, told him: "The effect on her life was profound. In her police interview, she said 'I don't do emotion.' She said she wished she had emotions."

He added that the woman's self-esteem had been seriously affected. The judge also remarked that the charges were "specimen counts" which were only examples of Bird's repeated offences against the girl.

Detective Constable Perriam, of Tiverton CID, said, after sentencing: "The victim has said what happened to her is a life sentence but she feels she can move on. She said that the last year has been a real struggle and she had felt like giving up but she's over the moon at the verdict."

Det Con Perriam added: "She has been so brave and shown such a strength of character.

"This is a case going back decades. I really want to praise how brave she has been, in coming forward after all this time.

"She is a model for anybody who has suffered abuse, to not be afraid of coming forward.

"She and other prosecution witnesses have been so brave in giving evidence and enduring cross-examination during the trial."

Det Con Perriam said she was pleased with the prison sentence.

"Justice has been done to the best of its ability," she said, adding: "James Bird had taken advantage of a very vulnerable child for several years."

She praised the victim's friends and family for the support they had given the woman.

Det Con Perriam also wanted to thank her colleague Detective Constable Alison Berry for her support. Bird was ordered to pay £5,000 costs which the judge said he could afford from the "substantial sum" he has sold his farm for.

The prosecution did not proceed with a charge that Bird had a shotgun without a firearms certificate in Honiton last year.
http://www.thisissomerset.co.uk/news/Rapist-jailed-8211-victim-earns-praise/article-2818052-detail/article.html
BillRM
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 11:30 am
@firefly,
The word entrapment come to mind in the police placing an adv for people to do an illegal act with no indication that any reader of that adv was looking beforehand to break any law.

This is way beyond having someone is a chat room just pretending to be a child and waiting for men to approach the "child" in a sexual manner.

David you are a lawyer is the courts likely to go along with this or not?
Arella Mae
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 11:35 am
@firefly,
I love the articles like that. They are so encouraging. Knowing there is healing for people who face such a thing is such a blessing.
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OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 11:38 am
@BillRM,
BillRM wrote:
The word entrapment come to mind in the police placing an adv for people to do an illegal act
with no indication that any reader of that adv was looking beforehand to break any law.

This is way beyond having someone is a chat room just pretending to be a child and waiting
for men to approach the "child" in a sexual manner.

David you are a lawyer is the courts likely to go along with this or not?
To MY mind, that is entrapment. I 'd look upon it as "the fruits of the poisoned tree".
Government is not supposed to entice the public into violating the law and then pounce on the results,
but I will not predict what future courts will do with it.

I believe that has gone the authoritarian way in the past,
and that was discussed on A2K. There was a case wherein the FBI enticed people to click on a link.





David
Arella Mae
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 11:47 am
@OmSigDAVID,
I don't believe placing an ad would constitute entrapment. It also depends upon exactly how the first talk of the "crime" came about.

But, seriously, do you really think this man hadn't done this before? If this was in his mind to commit this act, doesn't that make a difference to you? He was a COP. I would think for one, he'd know what he was doing was wrong and two, he knows that there are those in law enforcement out there trying to catch perpetrators with these types of "traps". At the very least, I'd say he was pretty stupid, wouldn't you?
OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 12:19 pm
@Arella Mae,
Arella Mae wrote:
I don't believe placing an ad would constitute entrapment. It also depends upon exactly how the first talk of the "crime" came about.

But, seriously, do you really think this man hadn't done this before? If this was in his mind to commit this act, doesn't that make a difference to you? He was a COP. I would think for one, he'd know what he was doing was wrong and two, he knows that there are those in law enforcement out there trying to catch perpetrators with these types of "traps". At the very least, I'd say he was pretty stupid, wouldn't you?
OK, but FIRST: how is my favorite baby mule getting along ?

Lemme get back to u tonite,
after I get back home.





David
Arella Mae
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 12:27 pm
@OmSigDAVID,
Our darling mule is doing wonderfully. We are putting him on a lead rope and walking him around and he is really doing well at it. His mom goes to the trainer next week. Will have Dave the trainer come load her up so I can keep JJ on the other side of the pasture so he doesn't know what is going on.

Looking forward to your post later.
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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 03:23 pm
@firefly,
Quote:
You two birdbrains overlook the fact that rape and sexual assault laws do not define the victim's rights to engage in an act. The laws define what constitutes violations, assaults, crimes
You are expanding the word "assault" so far that it now includes " doing an act with another person, when both people want to do the act, and have communicated this desire". In other words "assault" is rapidly going the way of "rape"...words that have had most of their meaning removed by extensive expansion of their definitions.
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OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 03:31 pm
@Arella Mae,
OK, sooner is better than later:
I got an adjournment, so I 'm free to write.
Adjournments r fun.



Arella Mae wrote:
I don't believe placing an ad would constitute entrapment. It also depends upon exactly how the first talk of the "crime" came about.

But, seriously, do you really think this man hadn't done this before? If this was in his mind to commit this act, doesn't that make a difference to you? He was a COP. I would think for one, he'd know what he was doing was wrong and two, he knows that there are those in law enforcement out there trying to catch perpetrators with these types of "traps". At the very least, I'd say he was pretty stupid, wouldn't you?
As to placing the ad: whether it is entrapment depends on what the government put into the ad,
but government is not supposed to try to corrupt the citizens so that it can incarcerate them.

As to whether he had done it before: I have no information,
but government is not supposed to criminally prosecute anyone
as vengeance for earlier allegations of crime that were never prosecuted nor adjudicated.
As to any such allegations, defendant had no opportunity to defend himself.

In that case that I mentioned before,
I believe that there was NO discussion of committing a crime,
merely an invitation to click an advertized link (secretly) to the FBI, promoting illegal porn.
According to the material in that A2K thead, defendant was convicted for clicking
and sentenced for years of federal incarceration (no parole).


U asked:
"I'd say he was pretty stupid, wouldn't you?"; maybe,
but do we wanna begin putting people in prisons for having low intelligence?

As to what people KNOW (as u ask),
I 'd like to offer 2 examples of ignorance at hi levels;
ignorance = unknowingness:

1) Some years ago, a lecture was advertized by the NY Police Dept.
about safety from crime. I deemed it good to go, particularly
to get any possible tips for protection from burglary.
(Burglary is the felony of entering upon someone else's real estate
for the purpose of committing a crime [usually the crime is larceny = stealing] ).

The lecturer was a sergeant in the NYPD, in full uniform,
who said he was 33 years old. He spoke reasonably well.
I asked him, several times, about good defenses from burglary,
without much of a response; eventually, he asked me to tell him
WHAT BURGLARY IS.

MY GOODNESS! I was 9 years old,
when I found out what burglary is.

The next example is a higher order of magnitude of ignorance:
some years ago, I attended a seminar on Employment Law
given by Practicing Law Institute, in a hotel in Manhattan.
I estimate an attendance of between 300 to 500 attorneys,
whose specialties included Employment Law.

Up on the elevated stage were several elite super-experts on the subject, very senior in their profession.
Thay took Q & A.
One of the questions addressed to them required maybe 25 minutes discussion among everyone,
as thay considered the influence of federal statutes, NY statutes,
Administrative interpretation and applicative regulations,
in addition to the evolution of both federal n state common law, based on everything.
After due consideration, the super-experts and attending throng reached a consensus
as to the legally correct strategy for an employer who was confronted by a given factual situation,
and that advice was recommended to all counsel in attendance.

Maybe 10 or 15 minutes thereafter,
a young lady raised a question of whether their advice
facially violated the NY Executive Law: upon consideration,
thay agreed that it DID; i.e., a client who took their super-good advice woud be exposed to liability.
The super-experts' collective advice was illegal, unbeknownst to them.
IGNORANCE OF THE LAW IS NO EXCUSE.
How coud any ordinary hi school graduate be expected to know n understand what those super-experts did not understand ?????

The judiciary shoud consider it Constitutionally void for vagueness; WILL it be??? Probably not.




IS there a reason to believe that this phenomenon is confined
to Employment Law???????
I don 't think there is.

My point is:
As we walk thru the world each day, we walk thru invisible webs
of law, not only of Employment Law, but of almost anything,
unknowing ly breaking laws left and right, of whose existence we know not.
This is true even of admitted members of the Bar.

AMERICA is supposed to be a SAFE place to live;
safe from government, anyway. In error, we assume that people
(especially experts) know a lot more than thay actually know.

By the time that u find out that u have fallen afowl
of some law of whose existence u had no idea,
the police r breaking down your front door; (too late).

If I have been too complex in expressing my post,
then for that, I apologize.





David



Arella Mae
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 04:48 pm
@OmSigDAVID,
I cannot disagree with your post. I am sure there is a lot more to the story than what we really know. I do tend to lean to the "it was in his mind to do it so he probably would have tried someone else if he hadn't tried this one."

I am really irritated at the thought that he was once a police officer.
BillRM
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 05:01 pm
@Arella Mae,
Quote:
I am really irritated at the thought that he was once a police officer


There was a DA that got involved with the Catch a Predator TV program but for some reason he did not show up at the bait house.

They then took the cameras and went with the police to his home where he shot and kill himself instead of giving up.
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firefly
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 06:03 pm
Good thing that other people were alert to what this man was doing. It really isn't safe for a woman to leave a drink unattended like that, but I guess she couldn't very well take it into the ladies room with her..
Quote:

Man accused of slipping woman date-rape drug
October 26, 2010
By Carole Gilbert Brown

A Mt. Lebanon man is in Allegheny County Jail after Bridgeville Police filed seven charges against him for allegedly giving a date rape drug to a woman.

Dean Barbaro, 50, of Gilkeson Road, was charged with unauthorized administration of an intoxicant, criminal attempt, delivery of a controlled substance and possession with intent to deliver a controlled substance, all felonies; reckless endangerment of another person and possession of a controlled substance, both misdemeanors; and a summary charge of harassment.

The charges stem from an Oct. 15 incident at Castaways Bar on Washington Avenue, where police say alert customers saw Mr. Barbaro placing the intoxicating sedative Clonazapam into the drink of a 54-year-old woman from Peters while she was in the restroom.

Police called to the scene retrieved the pill from the beverage and submitted it to the crime lab, where tests revealed it was a Clonazapam, which is in the same family as the widely used date-rape drug called Rohypnol.

Bridgeville Police Chief Chad King said that officers are continuing to investigate.

Mr. Barbaro was taken into custody Monday at his job in Pleasant Hills. He was arraigned before District Judge Maureen Desmett and placed in Allegheny County Jail on $10,000 straight cash bond.

He faces a preliminary hearing Monday.
http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/10299/1098182-100.stm
Arella Mae
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 06:27 pm
@firefly,
It is so dangerous to leave your drinks unattended! She should have taken it with her. But, I guess she was like most of us thinking, "it couldn't happen to me."
firefly
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 06:34 pm
Another man caught in a sting when he was looking to have sex with a 13 year old.
Quote:
47-year-old Lacey man busted for using Facebook to meet 13-year-old girl for sex
October 29th, 2010
By Stacee Sledge
Olympia Headlines Examiner

.. A 47-year-old Lacey man was arrested Friday after asking a 13-year-old girl, via Facebook, to meet him for sex at a local hotel.

What Mark J. Daniel didn't know was that the person on the other end of the computer exchanges was not his 13-year-old neighbor, but Thurston County Sheriff’s Detective Sergeant Cheryl Stines, posing as the teenage girl. Daniel typed his way right into a sting operation.

The mother of the 13-year-old girl had notified her daughter's probation officer with concerns that Daniel had "friended" her daughter on the popular social networking site.

A Thurston County Court Commissioner ordered the 13-year-old to share her login information with the probation officer, who then logged into the girl's account. Within minutes, Daniel attempted to chat with the girl.

The probation officer contacted detectives to alert them that there was an inappropriate relationship between the two.

On Thursday, Stines, posing as the 13-year-old girl, arranged to meet Daniel at the Super 8 on College Street in Lacey, for sex.

On Friday morning, Daniel arrived at the hotel to find Thurston County detectives. He was arrested for investigation of attempted rape and communicating with a minor for immoral purposes.

http://www.examiner.com/headlines-in-seattle/47-year-old-lacey-man-busted-for-using-facebook-to-meet-13-year-old-girl-for-sex

firefly
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 06:53 pm
The DNA databases can help to solve cold cases--even this one which occurred 25 years ago. Good thing that the original rape kit was kept for so long.

Quote:

Miami Herald
Posted on Wed, Oct. 27, 2010
Police make arrest in 25-year-old rape in Deerfield Beach
By JAMES BURNETT III

A Deerfield Beach rape case that had gone unsolved for 25 years reached a successful conclusion Wednesday when Broward Sheriff's Office detectives arrested a 45-year-old homeless man for the crime.

According to BSO, the 39-year-old victim was just a 14-year-old freshman at Deerfield Beach High School in 1985, when she was allegedly assaulted by Renis Olriedge, who has lived on the streets of Deerfield Beach and Pompano Beach, and in a homeless shelter in Palm Beach County.

Her family had recently moved to Florida and to Broward County.

Det. Eric Hendel said the victim was walking across the school's campus on a weekday afternoon, when Olridge, who was standing on the steps of a portable classroom, confronted her.

Olridge, allegedly grabbed the victim by the arm, and when she tried to fight him off, he stabbed her, before dragging her underneath the portable classroom and assaulting her.

A rape kit was collected and kept in evidence by the now-defunct Deerfield Beach Police Department, and the case went cold till 2007, when the victim saw another rape suspect in the news, accused of an assault in Deerfield Beach.

That arrest prompted the victim, who has struggled to put her life back together, Hendel said, to contact the detective and ask if suspect DNA from the newer case could be compared to the suspect's DNA from her case.

There was no national DNA database in 1985, when the original assault occurred. But surprisingly, Hendel said, when he checked with the Broward County Crime Lab, the lab still had the first victim's rape kit on file.

Even so, there was no match.

However, the DNA from the 1985 case was subsequently entered into a national database, and in September of this year a match was found with Olridge, who had submitted a DNA sample when he was arrested in 2008 for possession of cocaine.

Olridge was 20-years-old and living in Deerfield Beach at the time of the original attack.
http://www.miamiherald.com/2010/10/27/1895264/police-make-arrest-in-25-year.html


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BillRM
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 07:19 pm
@firefly,
Quote:
Good thing that other people were alert to what this man was doing. It really isn't safe for a woman to leave a drink unattended like that, but I guess she couldn't very well take it into the ladies room with her..


Come on Firefly while it a good idea to always to be alert to your surroundings and possible dangerous this kind of attack is very rare indeed.

In fact that is your pattern taking a real if minor risk and blowing it out of all proportion.

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Study finds date-rape drug use low

But teens warned to be careful to avoid drink spiking: experts

By DOUGLAS QUAN, Postmedia News September 30, 2010

Don't accept drinks from strangers and never leave drinks unattended.

It's a warning young people have heard for years, and one that was recently reinforced by police in B.C. following the suspected gang rape of a girl, 16, at a rave party.

But the actual threat of drink spiking using so-called "date-rape drugs" appears to be very low, according to a recent Canadian study.

Experts say the findings don't necessarily mean authorities shouldn't warn young people about these drugs and about covert drugging. But they say the message needs to be broadened to address a bigger concern and more common scenario: excessive drinking by young people and the mixing of alcohol with recreational drugs.

The study, published last month in the Journal of Forensic and Legal Medicine, examined the toxicology test results of 178 people who were treated for sexual assault at seven Ontario hospitals. The study found that 135 of them tested positive for alcohol, drugs or both.

However, the most common drugs detected were cannabinoids (marijuana), cocaine, amphetamines (speed, crystal meth), and MDMA (ecstasy) -not GHB or Rohypnol, drugs most often cited in date rape public-awareness campaigns.

"It's not typically the drugs that get all the hype," said lead researcher Janice Du Mont, a scientist at the Women's College Research Institute in Toronto.

In fact, there were only two positive findings of GHB and none for Rohypnol. And in one of the two GHB cases, the patient reported voluntarily taking the substance.

Studies out of Britain and Australia have made similar findings, calling drink tampering and the use of date-rape drugs to commit sexual assaults "uncommon" and a "very limited threat."

But that doesn't mean young people should let their guard down, experts say.

They note that the rare detection of date-rape drugs in toxicology tests could be attributable, in part, to the fact that some of these drugs typically disappear from a person's system within a day or two.

Plus, they say, surreptitious drugging can occur using other drugs.

Wendy Potter, counsellor with the B.C. Women's Hospital sex assault services team, said she encountered one case where a patient had been slipped a mixture of the sleeping aid Nytol and the cold remedy Robitussin.

hawkeye10
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 07:23 pm
@BillRM,
Quote:
Date-rape drink spiking 'an urban legend'Widespread spiking of drinks with date-rape drugs such as Rohypnol and GHB is an "urban legend" fuelled by young women unwilling to accept they have simply consumed too much alcohol, academics believe
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/crime/6440589/Date-rape-drink-spiking-an-urban-legend.html

Bill is right agian......
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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 07:28 pm
@firefly,
Quote:
The mother of the 13-year-old girl had notified her daughter's probation officer with concerns that Daniel had "friended" her daughter on the popular social networking site.

A Thurston County Court Commissioner ordered the 13-year-old to share her login information with the probation officer, who then logged into the girl's account. Within minutes, Daniel attempted to chat with the girl.

Alright, if he knew the girl was 13 this is justifiably a criminal matter, but i would love to know why this 13 yo has a probation officer, and why she refused to cooperate with the police. They had to go get a judge to order her to give up her password to FB. I have a strong suspicion that she was into prostitution. I am not in favor of huge criminal sentences for customers of under aged sex workers.
BillRM
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 07:36 pm
@hawkeye10,
Quote:
have a strong suspicion that she was into prostitution. I am not in favor of huge criminal sentences for customers of under aged sex workers.


Sorry Hawkeye I regret that I can not agree with you as there as it is a good chance that a girl of that age was force into such behaviors/life by the adults around her including family members.

Now if we are talking about 17 or even 16 years olds I might be more inclined to agree with you to some extend at least.

Hell even if such a girl was not force into this life she is still a child if not in body and have a right to the society protections at that age.

Firefly wish to turn all women into 13 years old but when it come to real 13 years olds we should try to protect them even from themselves.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Sat 30 Oct, 2010 09:00 pm
@BillRM,
Quote:
Hell even if such a girl was not force into this life she is still a child if not in body and have a right to the society protections at that age
I said that this should be a mater for the law, and considering how little I think the law should be involved in sex that is something. Normal prostitution should be legal, and the AOC should be 15, any customer of a girl younger should be charged, in my opinion. The penalty should not be 20 years and a lifetime as a sex offender however.
 

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