Hey, Can A Woman "Ask To Get Raped"?

I would suggest you used the ignore function on him, as Bill Occom seem only able to post short insults.

I had yet to see him post links or take part in any debate on this system beyond the postings of insults.

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I do believe that the moron in question is BillRM.

While I agree that Bill Rm is a moron,(The comments he made to BBB and JustBrooke are unforgivable) I think Occ.Bill was referring to the the woman who was a victim of stranger-rape and who's testimony I quoted.

Women aren't allowed to say no if they're drunk? Huh?

Come on Panz; say you were in for an evening of casual sex, and after you'd both had a few drinks she did a stiptease for you and started giving you a hummer... then abruptly decided she didn't want to be there anymore. Does she not have that right? Is there really any room for confusion here?

But it is an indictment of idiocy for suggesting the countless millions of date-rape victims weren't raped if they were drunk.

Been very hard to digest. He did not hurt me. It was someone else.

No idea what you are referring to

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Women aren't allowed to say no if they're drunk? Huh?

Sure they are; but they aren't allowed to say yes, an enthusiastic yes, and then regret it later and say that she said no. Which does happen a lot.

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Come on Panz; say you were in for an evening of casual sex, and after you'd both had a few drinks she did a stiptease for you and started giving you a hummer... then abruptly decided she didn't want to be there anymore. Does she not have that right? Is there really any room for confusion here?

I think that these hypothetical are all pretty one-sided; they don't seem to leave room for the possibility that the woman never in fact said no, or anything like it.

A casual history of my posts in this thread should make it pretty clear that I neither support nor defend any rapist or anything the two resident trolls have to say. Sort of a pre-defense of you jumping on me. My only point in typing is to say that the issue isn't as cut-and-dry as some make it out to be.

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I wasn't able to have orgasms when he was in me, and this just drove him right up the wall. He was determined to make me have them, but I couldn't. Sometimes, he'd force me

Odd that she could not just pretend to have orgasms is it not?

For that reason the story smell somewhat.

When I was four years old, two men lifted me out of the crib I was sleeping in and raped me.

Did I invite rape because I was in a bed?

THE STALKING ROOM
By BumbleBeeBoogie
(A true story I was unable to write for many years)

A bedroom in a small house, built before the Great Depression, holds memories still stalking its victim into her old age.

Spasms of nausea interrupt browsing through antique shops, stocked with pewter hand-mirrors, polished mahogany dressers, and yellowed linen table runners edged with frayed tatting.

An innocent glance with a inward eye at a faded wedding-ring patterned quilt hanging on the wall causes sweat to run down her ashen cheeks.

Her heart pounds in her chest as memories flood through her veins. She cannot escape the diary of her mind, preserving forever the unspeakable acts of two nineteen year-old men who lifted the smiling, trusting four-year old from her crib in her parent's bedroom on to the wedding-ring quilt covering the bed.

The men disappeared, but the memories of that room do not fade. They stalk her still in unexpected places, at unexpected times, in still unexpected ways.