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Hey, Can A Woman "Ask To Get Raped"?

 
 
Arella Mae
 
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Reply Mon 13 Sep, 2010 09:59 am
@BillRM,
BillRM wrote:

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How to Manual on How to Molest Children!


That story is strange first of all sick material like that had been floating around the net for a decade or so and is nothing new.

Second why and how would someone author this and then hand it out in hard copies in one small area of the country?

This story have hoax of some kind in large letters but it might result in better local TV ratings.
You truly are the sickest of people I have ever met. It is in the news that it is not a hoax YOU JERK! It doesn't surprise me one bit you would find some way to at least seem to be excusing such disgusting behavior. For all I know, YOU WROTE THE DISGUSTING BOOK! I WOULDN'T PUT IT PAST YOU!

And again, a woman pours out her heart as to what happened to her, a horrible, horrible thing! SHE WAS FOUR YEARS OLD! And you, what do you say? NOTHING! You offer her no comfort, no condolences, nothing. YOU PREFER TO SAY "OH IT'S HAPPENED BLAH, BLAH, FREAKING BLAH!"

I am so angry at your obvious lack of any morals or compassion I am seriously going to go and vomit.
Arella Mae
 
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Reply Mon 13 Sep, 2010 10:02 am
@BumbleBeeBoogie,
What a brave woman you are BBB. I know you and I haven't always seen eye to eye or gotten along but I have to tell you how strong I think you are. Thank you so much for posting what you did. Maybe, just maybe you can get across to some what others have tried and failed at. I am so sorry that you had to deal with all of that. You are right, it doesn't end with the rape.
BumbleBeeBoogie
 
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Reply Mon 13 Sep, 2010 10:08 am
@Arella Mae,
**** the damn rapers. I still had two wonderful children. One of them is A2K's Butrflynet. And I've survived to reach the age of 81.

BBB
Arella Mae
 
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Reply Mon 13 Sep, 2010 10:13 am
@BumbleBeeBoogie,
OH YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!! The best revenge is always to live well. I did not know buterflynet was your child! How wonderful.

If I may ask, please do not feel obligated to respond, but I am sure you were able to help lots of other rape survivors over the years with your testimony? I know when it happened to me it was a very hush, hush thing but in your case we are talking years before that. So, you must have had to deal with much more of a "ssssh we don't tell" kind of attitude? I know that kind of attitude brought on more shame for me so I am assuming for you it was even more so. You are such a strong survivor! I hope I am making sense.
BillRM
 
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Reply Mon 13 Sep, 2010 10:16 am
@Arella Mae,
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You truly are the sickest of people I have ever met. It is in the news that it is not a hoax YOU JERK! It doesn't surprise me one bit you would find some way to at least seem to be excusing such disgusting behavior. For all I know, YOU WROTE THE DISGUSTING BOOK! I WOULDN'T PUT IT PAST YOU!


The Survival Manual: The Man's Guide to Staying Alive in Man-Boy Sexual Relationships." is such a manual and it been put out by Nambla for the last 15 years or so.

Such sick material is not new in any sense of the word and can be found on the net with a simple google search.

So the story authors putting this out as some new event are playing games with the unthinking public once more.

Yes I know you like people pushing your emotional buttons and how dare I try to interfere with your emotional highs.


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BumbleBeeBoogie
 
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Reply Mon 13 Sep, 2010 10:23 am
@Arella Mae,
Not only was my rape not reported because it would bring shame on the family, I didn't understand what had happened to me until I was 13 years old. Most four year children have little memory of events at that age. But mine was so violent that I began having flash backs, memories of large penises, blood, hands over my mouth to muffle my screams, and wedding ring quilts on my parent's bed. I kept asking my mother what these memories were about. She finally told me that I had been raped and took me to a doctor. That's what the "Stalking Room" is about.

BBB
BumbleBeeBoogie
 
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Reply Mon 13 Sep, 2010 10:27 am
@Arella Mae,
I was the subject of a chapter in a book "The Politics of Rape" by Diana Russell in the 1970s.

http://books.google.com/books?id=LIO293clu44C&printsec=frontcover&dq=politics+of+rape+by+diana+russell&source=bl&ots=vdtDcStJeY&sig=1ZpGEQ5V5nyheUNqK9F9r_QxpqA&hl=en&ei=QlKOTP6kLIKmsQONxNW1BA&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=1&sqi=2&ved=0CBIQ6AEwAA#v=onepage&q&f=false

BBB
Arella Mae
 
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Reply Mon 13 Sep, 2010 10:53 am
I have it bookmarked and I will be reading it. Thank you so much for sharing it.
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Mon 13 Sep, 2010 10:54 am
@BumbleBeeBoogie,
Have you considered having the Stalking Room published? I know it would be so helpful to other rape victims. I know that anytime I meet a rape survivor I am reminded I am not alone in this and there are others that support and need support.
Arella Mae
 
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Reply Mon 13 Sep, 2010 10:59 am
Understood.
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BumbleBeeBoogie
 
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Reply Mon 13 Sep, 2010 10:59 am
@Arella Mae,
Have I considered having the Stalking Room published?

No.

BBB
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Mon 13 Sep, 2010 02:43 pm
This is pretty disturbing...................

http://www.limbicnutrition.com/blog/mating-calls-the-horrific-reality-of-male-on-male-rape-in-us-prisons/

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There are probably more men than women raped in the United States every year—most of them in prison. Best estimates put the annual number of prison rapes at about 140,000, which is 50,000 more than the 90,000 or so rapes of women reported to police. Gang rape of the most brutal kind is common, and weaker prisoners often seek protection from a “daddy” who fights off other predators in exchange for total submission and sex on demand. There is an ugly racial dimension to prison rape: Blacks and Mexicans deliberately seek out white victims, and black-on-white rape is probably more common than any other kind. Prison rape is an appalling secret in a country that prides itself on human rights.
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Mon 13 Sep, 2010 04:29 pm
@BillRM,
I didn't make up the numbers Bill. I provided the site it was from. Seriously, are you educated at all?
BillRM
 
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Reply Mon 13 Sep, 2010 04:43 pm
@Arella Mae,
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didn't make up the numbers Bill. I provided the site it was from. Seriously, are you educated at all?


I did not say you make up the number just implying that the number was likely to had been made up with perhaps just a slight nod to junk science.
Arella Mae
 
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Reply Mon 13 Sep, 2010 04:51 pm
@BillRM,
I doubt that it would matter to you Bill. Anything anyone has put up showing how high rape statistics really are you turn your nose up at them.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Mon 13 Sep, 2010 04:57 pm
@BillRM,
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I did not say you make up the number just implying that the number was likely to had been made up with perhaps just a slight nod to junk science.
it is a guesstiment. I figure AM is trying to make the point that men should care about rapes because of all the rapes that happen to men, in prison. Two problems with that....1)Prison rape has nothing to do with the rape outside the walls and 2) very few people give a **** what happens to prisoners. I have heard several people say that we should not track or interfere with prison rape, as it is a useful deterrent. If you dont want to get raped then make sure that you dont end up in a prison. I dont think that, but this kind of thinking renders AM's push into prison rape as likely useless to her agenda. Those who do care about prison rapes dont care so much about sex law as they do about prisoner abuse.

as per usual AM is lost.
firefly
 
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Reply Mon 13 Sep, 2010 05:05 pm
@BumbleBeeBoogie,
BBB, the story of your rape literally took my breathe away.

Which chapter in that book pertains to you?
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BumbleBeeBoogie
 
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Reply Mon 13 Sep, 2010 05:15 pm
@Arella Mae,
I would have to look through my hundreds of books throughout my home that lost any organizing when I moved. I will try to find it.

I looked at the chapters listed in the site and think it may be Chapter 12, page 117, Fathers, Husbands and other Rapists.

BBB
 

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