Recently two incidents happened which are giving me the feeling that I am finally being accepted by the people who work for me
Incident 1 - As I had mentioned, I had been given responsibility for Paris as well. But since I was not given any extra resources, and my team was overloaded with London anyways, I was struggling a bit in trying to understand what Paris was all about myself. One evening last week, one of my reports, seeing me in office at 2100 (after he came back from the pub to collect his bag) came and asked me what was I doing so late at work - upon which I told him my paris dillema. And he said he would be more that happy to help me out with Paris, even if it meant working some extra hours
Incident 2 - We are shifting offices, and the seating arrangements are being decided. The senior most member of my team (57, just 3 yrs away from retirement) was given a bigger space to sit, but it was a bit far away from where I sit (which are much smaller bays). he objected to it saying that he would rather sit with me as it would be more productive than to sit far away in a bigger space. I was touched !!