Steve, you are right - look what is happening with the BNP !!! And they are playing their cards very cunningly - pitting the White plus non islamic communities against the islamic communities in the UK.
Piffka, it will be honor to have a drink with you and yeah I agree with you. When I was posted in Sri Lanka, I was paid in dollars. My apartment was a suit in the best five star hotel overlooking the beach. I never had a more luxurious lifestyle than the one I had in Sri Lanka !! And what a beautiful island and lovely people. Pity to see it detoriate over the years due to all the conflicts happening there. And I just noticed that U lived in Bombay.
I did not know that there was a Bombay in the US as well !!
Patiodog, LOL - yeah the attitude of yr grandmother-in-law sounds just abt right !
Blatham, Thanks mate !
GW, you raise some interesting points. See, the difference between Indians living in the US and the ones living in the UK is that out here we are still treated as "slaves from the colonies". In that respect, even our economic status fails to shield us from the prejudice which is rampant amongst the average brit. Actually, it makes us even more hated !!! There have been a few incidents when a shop salesman has told me that what I am interested in is probably too expensive for me to buy LOL. I have noticed this at bars, resteraunts etc, that the attitude of the server immediately changes when a group of asians walk in. Even at the best establishments, a white party will always get served before a colored one. Few years ago, I used to take it meekly, now I just loose it !! After all, I work hard, pay my taxes which probably feeds a family of four on the dole - and am not going to take any crap from anyone. I did not come to the country because I wanted to escape the atrocities being doled out on me in my country - I was invited to come and work here, because they thought that I can do a bloody good job !! Even now, my requests to grant a transfer to me permanently out of the UK is always turned down flat with "We need you here" !!!
People who are prejudiced abt someone just because they look a bit different are sad. I actually feel sorry for them. Their universe is so limited, their thinking so small, their minds so close.
Crime in London, well, coming from India, it really does not bother me. Ofcourse we take all the usual precautions, and stay away from the hot spots of criminal activities. But yeah, crime is there and is bloody rampant. There is so much poverty and unemployment, obscene difference between the rich and poor and so much frustruation, that it is but natural. But the good thing is that criminal activities are contained in certain areas, and as long as you stay away from them, you are more or less fine.
There are two other factors which keep me here I guess, one being that having been born and bought up in a very "british oriented" society in India, it does not feel too far away from home (deep down in my heart, I am still a simple country boy LOL) and the other being that London is fairly tolerant when it comes to sexual orientation....