ladyinpink wrote:
" I'm osrry to txt you so late, but I have to say this. I am not mad at you and I have no idea what goes on in your life out side of the office but the comments and little things that are going on have to stop. You are my boss and you're married there are certain boundaries that should never be crossed or tempted..."
ladyinpink, this message is so watered down it would serve no purpose.
First off, I wouldn't text either. But you've obviously made up your mind that is what you are going to do.
Your first 2 words...."I'm sorry" sets the tone for the entire message. Don't be sorry you're texting him late, he has been behaving badly for a long time, and is not sorry at all.
You ARE mad at him, whether you want to admit it or not. Let him know you're angry that he has made you feel uncomfortable. You haven't done anything wrong, HE has.
Comments and "little" things? Groping and making sexual comments are not little things. They are a major invasion of your person.
You don't need to remind him he's married, he knows it.
You said when you came back here that things have gotten worse, and it's not because you let them.
Yes you have let them. Get that clear in your head.
ladyinpink, 99% of the issue on your side of this is that you are trying to be "nice"
Being "nice" is what is getting you groped and humiliated.
You said it's "kind of a small law office"....well, is it a law office, or isn't it?
Is he a lawyer?