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Sex by the third date?

 
 
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Sun 21 Jun, 2009 11:54 am
@Treya,
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Hawk you can't be flippin serious? You sound just as delusional as my co-worker. Do you chase women that age because in your mind they're more desperate and easy to control? That's got to be the reason right? I think you and my co-worker would get along just fine. He also believes every woman should have the perfect body.

Regardless of the cost to them. If they're 10 lbs over their perfect body weight, have smaller than "c" cup breasts, or any physical imperfection as he see's it, well it's their own fault they are alone. They couldn't honestly expect a man to accept them for more than a one night stand... in the dark... if they aren't willing to look the part


I don't chase older women, but I am hoping that what I have been told is correct and stays correct when I am 50+.

Perfect body: each guy has a different idea of what perfect is, though I certainly prefer curves and big tits. A woman who brings this body to bed is more desired by me then one who does not. But I know guys who like anorexic and small tits, so even though the history of breast augmentation proves that more guys like big (it is proven that almost all are done for a guy, or in the hopes of getting a guy, though the patients uniformly lie to their doctors and friends about this), even though there is no blanket statements on beauty and sexual desirability.
OGIONIK
 
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Reply Sun 21 Jun, 2009 12:24 pm
@hawkeye10,
i dont like big tits.

lawlerblades.

i like bs an cs
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Treya
 
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Reply Thu 23 Aug, 2012 08:22 pm
@hawkeye10,
Well three years later... I have been on a few dates... 90 percent of them bailed when I didn't put out by the third date. Harumph! lol
maxdancona
 
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Reply Thu 23 Aug, 2012 08:37 pm
@Treya,
Why do you use the term "put out" to describe having sex? Don't women like to have sex?

It sounds like you feel like you are doing these men a favor by having sex with them.
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Atom Blitzer
 
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Reply Thu 23 Aug, 2012 09:55 pm
@Treya,
What do I think?
Being that I'm a sexpert. I think it's easier to run away from your problems than wake up next to them in the morning, and that is what being a human is all about. I think the final frontier for man is having sex with an ugly person. So you gotta re asses the situation, swallow your pride, and by the grace of god you gotta finally do the nasty. If it doesn't work out you gotta duck out early. I think all ladies are interested in mph, minutes per hump, and as you can imagine just like cars, the faster it is, the better it is for the ladies. You wouldn't probably have to wait the third date if the slut is drunk which is probably easy if you do the beer pong challenge. If she is sober, you just have to coax her to drink more. But you know for some girls being independent is their religion, so what can you do about it, well you probably follow them on twitter cause those kind of girls just use it as a diary. I mean it's ok for girls to act slutty after their heart is broken, cause they are mature and independent and they can act like however they want, I won't judge.
Anyway dating after 18 or when people's body are "mature" isn't even most likely about commitment, it's just about sex, kinda like any other animal you know.

Disclosure: I'm completely ******* bullshitting this.
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Thomas
 
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Reply Fri 24 Aug, 2012 08:03 am
@Treya,
Treya wrote:
Well three years later... I have been on a few dates... 90 percent of them bailed when I didn't put out by the third date. Harumph! lol

Good riddance to them! Good for you that they ran before they could break your heart.
solipsister
 
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Reply Sat 25 Aug, 2012 06:15 am
@Thomas,
I field the force.
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whatiam
 
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Reply Wed 29 Aug, 2012 06:42 am
i do not think that all the guys are like this. some guys expect sex in the first date. but the real question is what you need. not only what he needs.
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NicolasRoss
 
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Reply Tue 30 Oct, 2012 08:51 pm
@Treya,
Not true. Girls don't need sex to have men interested but you should know that better than me.
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spendius
 
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Reply Wed 31 Oct, 2012 02:48 pm
Wouldn't it depend on what sort of a date it is?
Rockhead
 
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Reply Wed 31 Oct, 2012 02:50 pm
@spendius,
court date?
spendius
 
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Reply Wed 31 Oct, 2012 03:48 pm
@Rockhead,
I'm not sure what that is Rockie but I presume it is a date with parental guidance on both sides with a degree of chaperonage.

Three of them wouldn't qualify.
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Jecksoul
 
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Reply Fri 2 Nov, 2012 09:02 am
@Treya,
Well it's not really a rule but more of an average number.
For me, kiss should happen on the 2nd date and sex 3nd or 4th. (every romance is different though...)
If it takes more time there's a risk that I get disinterested, except if I really feel that things are going in the right direction...
spendius
 
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Reply Fri 2 Nov, 2012 12:10 pm
@Jecksoul,
You must realise that over-supply cheapens the product.
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Insomnium
 
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Reply Tue 6 Nov, 2012 03:00 am
@Green Witch,
great idea i love it
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Insomnium
 
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Reply Tue 6 Nov, 2012 03:17 am
@chai2,
Women have all the power I agree
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lowesick
 
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Reply Fri 16 Nov, 2012 08:31 am
@hawkeye10,
your co-worker is probably not surely desperate.. there isn't such rule,... or he is just playing some trick with you!!! There isn't any rule.. it will sooner or later happen, when you both are comfortable about it!!
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