Why would an unattached man get attached to one woman when he can play with several at once, and always on his terms? Men are in the drivers seat, they know it, and they take advantage of their power.
Thanks for the belly-laugh! You have GOT to be joking. Sure, some guys have the art of seduction down to a T. That doesn't mean it's not up to me whether I spread my legs or not. If "I" want it, I will. If "I" don't, I won't. If he doesn't like it, I care not. I doubt there are very many women on the face of this earth, that have not had an "unattached" man, beg them for sex. Wait! Did I say beg? Where's this power you speak of?
Reminds me of a guy I was with "one" time. Was all good. Sex was great. Then he began "the chase" because he wanted to come back for more. In his book, I got what I wanted out of him, and discarded him. He even accused me of "using him." He was right. Still....isn't that something that females are supposed to accuse the guy of? Not the other way around? This dude wasn't hard up! Quite the opposite.
Men have all the power????? NOT! If you are a woman and a man has uninhibited sex with you, and he considers you hot, smart, funny, and a firecracker in the bedroom, most of the time that man will lie down at your feet for the chance at something bigger than just the bedroom. His machoism melted into a little puddle. I know that I'm not the only female that has ever encountered this.
Power? Women have it, and plenty of it. It's ok if you want to live in your own little disillusioned world, Hawk. Though you are correct, I am sure, when you speak of the mindset of people (male and female alike) in the BDSM clubs, or any kind of sex club for that matter. Outside of there, most bets are off. Though, even outside of those clubs, there are exceptions, I'm sure. Some women just love being controlled. If that's what men/women, like/want...then it's very cool. They are getting what they want. But keep in mind, it in no way means you have power over them.
As for the best sex. Is it with love, or without love? Great sex is great sex. No matter the category. But there's just something so mind blowing about crawling into the arms of someone that you love after a breathless session of smokin hot sex. It beats the snot out of laying there wishing the guy would just go home now, cuz you're done with him. And no one night stand can bring you to a climax so powerful that it brings you to the point of real tears as the rush of that orgasm engulfs your body and joins with the powerful emotion of love. It is totally indescribable through words. But I'm sure most women here know what I'm talking about.
In simple terms, I say this, and I think I speak for most women. "If I want sex with you, I will give it to you. If I don't ....sorry about your luck. If you relentlessly continue the pursuit, I will tell you to f*ck off." Ye, oh powerful man!