@ossobuco,
I've said this repeatedly on a2k, so I won't belabor it now, but when I went to italy the first time, for the first long vacation in decades, in 1988, I fell in love with it immediately, even while exhausted out of my mind from an unending flight, etc. I'd not been able to visualize it there, this being pre internet, except for some photos I'd seen over the years of, say, the colosseum - I was a stranger in a strange world, and very avid to experience things. Not least, the pasticcerias and gelaterias, and pizzerias, on and on. And, my point, the sweets in the pastry shops were not as sweet as ours in the US, or didn't seem so, and seemed to have more flavor of whatever sort. So, that was a transitional experience and I got pickier about sugar after I came back.