Re: aidan (Post 3559382)
Frank said
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Quote:Yes, I think probably this is true. But…since the Christian god…which of course, is the god Jesus worshiped and directed you folks to love…informs you via the Bible that homosexual behavior is an abomination….
…you’ve really got to wonder why the church you went to didn’t teach you that!
I don't know - I think my pastor was a nice guy - that might explain it.
Quote:I KNOW THAT HOMOSEXUALS SHOULD NOT BE TREATED ANY DIFFERENTLY FROM HETEROSEXUALS, Aiden…and I do not do otherwise. I have friends of both sexes who are homosexual.
But that does not detract from the fact that a purported Christian feeling that same way….is hypocrisy. A Christian should be honoring the sensitivities of the god they supposedly love and worship.
And who among us in never hypocritical?
I've spoken before about not knowing what exactly to call myself as I seem to have a hybrid set of beliefs. I call it christianity, because I learned what I learned in a christian church. Whether my educators in christianity (being primarily my mother and father) were neglectful in not teaching me that I should judge and hate- I can't say. I can only say I'm happy I got the specific christian educators and education that I got.
I don't have to worry about people being gay or hypocrites or anything else that's commonly part of the human condition.
It's not my job to judge....period.
Quote:Why is that so ******* hard to understand????
Life is full of inconsistencies. Some of them are hard to understand. Why is it so ******* hard for you to understand that?
Quote:Why are you people still fighting this obvious truth???
Deluded I guess - but hopefully so...
Quote:The church leaders who taught you, Aiden, were hypocrites! That is a fact!
Yes - most definitely. Because they were human. And every human walking the earth is a hypocrite in some way to some extent.
Quote:They cannot teach acceptance and tolerance for homosexual behavior if they claim that Jesus is the son of the god of the Bible…and if they teach that the Bible tells us what the god of the Bible expects of humans…UNLESS THEY ARE HYPOCRITES.
See above. But guess what - they CAN do whatever they want. You can't change that.
Quote:I know that truth stings…but it is the truth. It cannot be any other way.
We all face truths that sting at one point or another.
Quote:How the hell can you stand there bare faced and suggest that you have “respect” for my “beliefs.?” How do you dare to do that…in a sentence filled with the demand that I “respect yours!!!!”
I was raised in the American tradition (which seems to have gone down the tubes at this point) that you have as much right to your beliefs as I have to mine.
I can't change that - it's been fully integrated in my psyche.
Just as fully as my christian upbringing has.
Quote:You DO NOT IN ANY WAY RESPECT MY “BELIEFS.” I don’t even fault you on that…because you cannot!
You're wrong. I can. I only know my belief works for and is right for me. I know I can't enforce it on anyone else. Frank - my son believes in God - my daughter isn't sure. Do you think I sit here and harrass and harangue her. It's pointless and fruitless- and I love her as she is. Belief is as much a function of personality as it is anything else.
I would never ask my daughter to be something she's not and lie about it.
Quote:My “beliefs” (which I do not call beliefs, I prefer “my view of right and wrong”) are that I should be doing everything in my power to eliminate your “beliefs” from the face of the planet!
Wait - are you the ANTICHRIST?!
Quote:Are you telling me you “respect” that…in any sense of that word?
If that's your calling - go for it.
Quote:It is my opinion that religion demeans humanity…and that the people getting benefit from it should simply find another way to get that benefit, because the cost to humanity of having religion around for their use…simply is not worth it.
I can understand why you have that opinion. Man has pretty much fucked it all up. I think that's exactly why my psyche insists there has to be something else to have faith in.
I'd be a shitscared nervous wreck if I had to depend solely on humans.
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That is my opinion. I understand you are not of like opinion…AND I DEFINITELY RESPECT YOUR RIGHT TO HAVE A DIFFERENT OPINION. (There is a difference!)
so stipulated (I got that from David)
Quote:Anyway, “my view of what is right and wrong” includes “finally eliminating religion from the face of the planet”…as the ultimate “right!” I am obliged by my conscience to aim in that direction!
Then that's what you must do- follow your conscience.
And I have to follow mine.
Quote:Stop suggesting that I should “respect” your “beliefs”, Aiden, because I cannot do that and be true to my view of right and wrong at the same time. And stop pretending that you can respect my view of what is right and wrong…BECAUSE YOU OBVIOUSLY ARE NOT DOING IT!
In what way have I been disrespectful to you?
Quote:And neither is Nimh or DrewDad or Craven.
they have to be responsible for their own behavior.
Quote:If you want to discuss any of this, I’ll be happy to discuss it. If you want to pretend that I am too irrational to discuss these things...I certainly will understand that also.
I don't think you're irrational - I think that's what you think I am (because I believe in a god).
I'll discuss anything - just don't be goin' and givin' Jersey a bad name. We're not all rude assholes..(that's a joke- I tried to put one of those laughing guys, but they jump all over the page.