@Eva,
Well.
I am having a case of cognitive dissonance today.
My sister called me yesterday to get my email. (The only one she had used to go to the both L and I. Those days are gone.)
(Can I mention that the reason she was calling was to send me an invitation? She is receiving one of the highest awards given from the Columbia University School of Social Work. There's a dress up formal sit-down dinner.) I am very proud.
Anyway, I am talking about this "guess the guy's birthday" thing and going on about being born on Easter Monday when she interrupts with "No, it was the Monday after Easter Monday."
Wha?
"They went on Easter Monday, but it was a false alarm. They sent her home and told her to stay in bed. Hah."
It must have been difficult to stay in bed with three other children, one still in diapers, the other two at four and five years.
(Yes. If you are counting, that's one newborn about every fourteen months.)
"What did she do? Do you know?" I asked.
"I think Nana came down from Holyoke on Tuesday and all the neighbors, Mrs. Marsh, Mrs. Hollman, Mrs. Ford, Mrs. Benson, Mrs. Ennis cooked or took us to their houses."
(We had a great neighborhood, people depended upon each other, watched out for each other and each other's kids.)
"She waited another week, you were not the easiest baby. Pop said later he about lost both you and her. That's why they tried not to have anymore kids after you."
I said I thought I always thought it was because I was so perfect.
"Don't you remember her telling about how she went to rectory to ask if there were some kind of birth control she and Pop could try without sin and how the priest practically threw her down the stairs?
Um. Yes. I heard that story several many times.
So, it was the Monday after Easter Monday?
"Yes."
Do you remember anything else?
"I think we went to Dory Marsh's house real early and it was snowing."
Joe(I got that right.)Nation